Do you believe love at first sight, could my husband be honest?

[Anonymous]

Husband said when he first seen my photo before we met it was love at first sight. We met through mutual friend. Been married close to 12 years now

[Finchie40]

When someone says love at first sight , they are usually just infatuated by that person’s beauty , most of us guys’ are drawn to a girls’ beauty first especially if we do not Know the girl personally, we are very visual when we see an attractive girl for the first time , that we find to be very beautiful and attractive to our eyes , and we pretty much visualize what she would look like in our arms , or being lost in her eyes etc. I can’t speak for all guys’ but a majority of us are blown away by a Girls’ beauty first , then it pretty much comes down to her personality on whether she has a good heart or not , if she values relationships or not etc. once a girl meets all those expectations he is craving , he will more than likely fall for her and want her by his side , Love doesn’t really grow until they prove to each other that they only have eyes for each other , and they want and choose each other the same way, so when someone says Love at first sight to you , they are basically implying that they are head over heels for you , you are a girl he can see by his side every day, if you both have great chemistry and connection together, a guy is more than likely going to stand by her side . A guy isn’t going to give his heart to a girl that treats him like shit , or he isn’t going to give his heart to a girl that can’t stay loyal and faithful to him , he might fuck her , but he won’t stay committed to her , unless he is a Simp. Most guys have Ego’s , when he meets a girl that fulfills his ego , he is more than likely going to cherish her and stand by her side. Me personally loves a beautiful girl that is submissive to me , that cherishes me the same way I cherish her , a girl that will stand by my side no matter what obstacles we face together , that proves that I am the only guy for her , she will more than likely get my heart a 100 percent if she brings consistent happiness into my life , not misery , I sadly have been burned and backstabbed by girls’ that said they wanted all of This in a relationship, , to find out they just wanted what was best for themselves at that time. So for any relationship to survive and for love to grow , both partners should make each other Their top priority and
Choose each other over everyone else if not then that relationship will more than likely not last the long haul , understand you can’t always be right and your partner is wrong , when you find someone that wears your shoes the same way you wear theirs before making decisions , then that relationship will more than likely survive and last the long haul if you both see eye to eye on a lot of things

[Phoenix98]

I can't not believe in it I'm a product of it.

My father fell in love with my mother the moment he saw her on the street and told himself he was gonna marry her. He didn't see her again till a few years later and after they dated he did indeed marry her and 30 years and three kids later they're still happily together.

[OlderAndWiser]

When he saw your photo, what did he know about you other than your level of attractiveness. I believe in lust at first sight, and SOMETIMES that is follows by a courtship and love develops, but. . . when he fell in love with you at first sight, what was it about you that he loved?

[Asker]

We seen each other in person before but I didn’t put much notice in him at first because I felt he wasn’t ready for me but he ended up chasing me ♥️🥹

[OlderAndWiser]

So what was it about you that he loved when he felt "love at first sight?"

[Asker]

He said he knew about me before hand which he really did but for sure he loved my loyalty, honesty and he said I’m a rare blessing but I was made just for him. I was the very last woman he dated and there was a family reunion so I could meet the entire family.

[Asker]

I was basically a quiet girl in the community and not really you could know about me but it was so cute how he researched me at least lol some men referred to me as a dream girl

[OlderAndWiser]

"We seen each other in person before" So it really wasn't 'love at FIRST sight."

[Asker]

We didn’t notice each other though lol like I was looking at him but he was looking at me and I wasn’t looking at him

[OlderAndWiser]

If "love" can happen just by looking at someone, when you don't know ANYTHING about them, it is a meaningless form of "love," by my standards, and a horrible misuse of the word.

[Asker]

Well we did I just felt like he wasn’t ready for me at the time

[RoseySarah]

Nope love is built together!

Desire at first sight or interest is created!

It's not love cause love is built together over time!

[Biancam13]

I believe in attraction at first sight. But I’m not sure if you can genuinely love someone just based on how they look. That’s not what love is. But sure, your husband is probably being honest because HE believes in love at first sight. There’s nothing wrong with that, it’s his belief!

[AmeerX]

Love at first sight exists 😌. I don't want to say this but I am in love like this too. Sadly it wasn't meant to be. I love someone and I don't want to embarrass her but even though I have not seen her I talked to her and I can tell she is the one I will always long even if she said no to me.

[Heolurt]

From my understanding and hearing couples talk about it, a lot of the men say it was, "love" at first sight but the women always say it wasn't so maybe it's something Only men experience.

[Friendlybro79]

I think sometimes you can have that happen and when he met you he must have felt validated. Can you have that same scenario, meet a person, and fall out of love at first conversation too? Yes lol

[sheikalana]

No, I don’t believe in love at first sight. Just because you find someone attractive when you first see them doesn’t mean you’re in love. Love takes time.

[IslaTheWitch]

I believe in the attraction at first sight.

Love is a higher emotion that needs time to develop and a lot of effort to keep.

[Jasmin01]

I firmly believe that fall in love at first sight exists. Why shouldn't your husband have this, even if he only saw a photo?

[Joshydavid25]

I don't know about love at first sight, but I do believe that a man becomes so enamored with how you present yourself that he does feel strong feelings right off the bat.

[KrisKris81]

I've experienced intense interest (that wasn't lust), but am not sure I would describe it as love at first sight. Maybem more of a "bond of a common interest mindset"

[Unycorn]

I believe that love at first sight really does exist - but not for everyone

[Nik1hil]

True, it takes men, 0.7 sec to decide if they love a girl or not!.. it's actually attaraction at first sight...

[exitseven]

I met my wife and it really was love at first sight.

[sage2021]

@exitseven
That's nice 🙂

[Asker]

Did you see her before meeting

[exitseven]

No, i was working in my yard and she was walking by. She was with her grandmother and aunt and 2 sisters. I just ignored them until I noticed her hiding in the background. She had big brown eyes and the prettiest smile i ever saw.

[Asker]

That’s amazing! I seen my hubby in person but never approached each other because I felt he wasn’t ready for me but he chased me

[exitseven]

She wanted nothing to do with me.

[Asker]

We wasn’t ready for this lol

[Nikki1989]

No, it can take weeks, even months to know what real love is.

[SolitarySolace]

No. Because I thought I experienced it once but we never got together. If anything she ignored me and still is to this day.

[Fireguy17]

Yes, sometimes you just know.

It's hard to explain but it can happen.

[Tim2nice]

He could be right. I know within 5 minutes if I’m gonna be in love with a woman.

[rienna888]

Yes that only happens to beautiful people though, like you fit their ideal image of a partner

[Anonymous]

that's called lust... you cannot be in love off of a picture you saw once...

[YAsQuen]

its probably true more often for men. He found you cute. Not that hard to imagine thats true

[serious]

No, I don't believe in that.

[Brittanykeen88]

It's rare but possible.

[jahaims]

No, lust and infatuation can turn into love.

[Sabretooth]

a strong pull.

[Asker]

Huh?

[Sabretooth]

A strong desire to be close to them.

[Maddy2002_]

I’m certain it happens all the time.

[Likes2drive]

Yeah it’s possible

[JackStany]

Nahh

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Nope.

[CT_CD]

No..

[BLP11520]

I do...

[Bellawiththefatass]

Yes ofc

[Jmmmfi4]

I DO