Ever wondered if someone wants to be with you out of obligation?

[Anonymous]

One of my worst fears is this. Someone says they want to be with me but they don’t truly mean it. And of course, they lead me on and pretend they love me while I love them for real.

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6 mo

Why being in a relationship is really scary because your partner can go years pretending and you won’t even know it.

[ohsheeT]

Well the thing about a relationship like that it sure isn't going to last more than a week.

When somebody's not into you you can feel it I mean you can feel it from 20 ft away.

You can feel it the moment that you touch and become one

You can tell by the look in their eyes


You can tell by the way they use their words

No like I said if anybody has ever tried that I don't think they have but it wouldn't last more than a week that's for sure

[Gent207-2]

The best way to test compatibility is to take them paint shopping. How you compromise and resolve conflict speaks volumes

[RedInnocent68]

Reminds me of a story my Dad would tell. Our neighbours were doing some renos, getting wallpaper, I think. My Dad thought it was good idea and asked for advice. The neighbor asked, ‘how good is your marriage?’ 😂

[IslaTheWitch]

People are different, but there is one rule, worthy of remembering. The more insecurities you bring into the relation the more chances something won't work.

I prefer to lbuild trust with time and create the relationship when I feel sure mine and other person's feelings.

[sheikalana]

No, never wondered. I never obliged or forced someone to be with me.

[NathanDavis]

nope, never had to

but why would they even do something like that?

[dudeinohio]

Life is full of risks. A person will go through several relationships in their life.

It's worth the risk

[driven159]

that is a chance everyone takes we just hope we keep are eyes open and see what is really happening and not get blindsided by a con

[Anonymous]

That’s me. I’m sticking around but I no longer want to.

[Asker]

And that’s exactly why relationships are not worth being in.

[Nikki1989]

No, that would be a weird mindset to have.

[Anonymous]

Hey cute new pic Sash!