Seems that cheating is no big deal anymore, everybody's doing it. It's just so casual. True or not true? (Page 2)

[FunkyMonkee]

I have no idea. I haven't been involved with anyone for 28 years (as of next Tuesday).

[FunkyMonkee]

Hey, big girl, got an extra $200?

[sage2021]

Is this you? Talking to me through your spirit? You know I have $200 but this time you can kiss my royal ass if you want it.

[FunkyMonkee]

Ass kissing is gonna be $500.

[sage2021]

@FunkyMonkee
What made you so silly to ask me that? Was it from something you read in one of my post here?
I told you he stole over 5 grand from me hours before he died. Where do you think I would get $500 now?

[FunkyMonkee]

Unless I've got assholes around me to bring me down, I'm usually in a kind of silly mood. 3 years ago, I had to go to the hospital to give them permission to pull the plug on my aunt. I cried like a baby for hours but, even though I was very sad and pissed, I was still making jokes in the car on the ride home. My mind just goes there.
Sorry if I brought up any bad memories. It was NOT my intention. I don't think ANYBODY could give me enough money to make me kiss ass!

[sage2021]

@FunkyMonkee
Oh, so you're laughing and joking because my boyfriend died. Ok...

[FunkyMonkee]

Is THAT what I said?

[Sasha0426]

Honestly, yes. People get into relationships just to cheat and hurt others because it gives them power and raises their ego. It’s why loyalty is practically dead and people wanted it that way.

[Likes2drive]

Yeah, it does seem like people think it’s OK to cheat on their partners these days, and as you know, I was cheated on too

[sage2021]

@Likes2drive
I don't know why people even bother to try and find someone for a real grown up relationship when they're just going to get cheated on or constantly worrying they are being cheated on because everyone is doing it.
I blame social media for the change. Before social media, people were looking for a commitment, marriage, etc. Now they just cheat and break up. Divorce is very expensive as you know. Pretty soon marriage will be a thing of the past.
My cousin got married back in the 60's and even back then her husband went down to the bar in the Hotel they were honeymooning in and cheated on my cousin after they had sex that night, and got pregnant.
One of my bosses I had spent his whole retirement paying for his daughters white church. One week later her new husband cheated on her and they got divorced.
What is the answer these days?

[Likes2drive]

Seems marriage is outdated and not worth it anymore

[sage2021]

@Likes2drive
That's what is so sad about my life. I was a very good and faithful wife. When I was with this last one (who died a few months ago) he always called me his wife and he said that he was the luckiest guy in the universe to have me. He said that a lot. I know I would be a great wife, but I don't think that will ever happen again sorry to say.

[SolitarySolace]

Can’t argue with that, even though I’ve never cheated but that’s because I was cheated on 3 times and stayed single for almost 9 years now

[WhyohWhy69]

Definitely not true for anyone but man hoes or female hoes.

[Danny_dan92]

Everybody is doing it because of how easy it is to do it now thanks to technology.




It’s still unacceptable.

[Jennz6]

It’s a big deal but lots of people are doing it

[sage2021]

@Jenn6
Lots of married couples are all doing it too?
Ya know, why y'all even bother to have a real relationship with anyone is beyond me. Why don't people just fuck stranger's and end it? There are constantly questions from people and how someone might me cheating, or my boyfriend is cheating. Just skip the commitment, having a real grown up relationship or anything meaningful with another human being that you know will cheat on you anyway?

[Meropatrick]

Bcs something bad happens too often doesn't mean its not a big deal. Or its not bad

[Surely]

It sure seems like cheating is the norm. But I am sure that there are still devoted and dedicated people out there who would not cheat!

[IslaTheWitch]

It's a big deal. At least for me.

[NathanDavis]

I'm not doing it... and it is a big deal

[Jamie05rhs]

You really need to fire her ass.

[Andres77]

Depends on the relationship

[BLP11520]

It is a big deal in some circles

[Anonymous]

It is common but not socially acceptable

[Kelly6]

true

[Kelly6]

@sage2021 in past i did cheating, but then agreed to change relationship into open marriage

[Kelly6]

@sage2021 if she makes you uncomfortable, then replace her.
why are you still keeping her?

[sage2021]

@Kelly6
I remember open marriages from the 70's. Haven't heard about the since then. I had the book in my living room "Open Marriage". People didn't go for it though.

[Kelly6]

@sage2021true most people can't accept open marriage, so go straight to divorce.
our open marriage is one sided only, not as it's written in book

[sage2021]

@Kelly6
Because I don't have anyone else to replace her. She's only going to be here 3 days starting in January, which isn't enough time for her to rake care of all of us. She's a scatter brain too. Comes to work whenever, leaves early. Doesn't stay in contact with the people she works for so we never know when she's going to do what. She's turned into a real moody bitch!

[Kelly6]

i understand that.
once i had a midwife like that too.
she made me so upset that i got rid of her

[Kelly6]

including the maid

[sage2021]

@Kelly6
You asked why I don't get another helper lady. Did you know the day before he died he stole over $5 grand from me which was my savings, so I can barely pay this witch.

[Kelly6]

@sage2021 WOW
I can’t imagine him and her