i don't care whether they still have it or not. i won't. end of story. certain things aren't my partners business to decide. she can nicely ask and i'll politely say no. but she certainly can't demand it and if that' a deal breaker to her... you know there's plenty guys out there. she's not forced to be with me.
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Anonymous
(25-29)
5 mo
In short, depends why.
If I only use it to check for shops and follow purposeful accounts, where my account is private and I don't post anything about myself, then I won't.
And why do they want me to delete it, if there's a valid reason then okay. Otherwise, no.
I would doubt that I would delete my social media account. I use my social media account to keep track of my children. Since I have been on social media I've made contact with family members I've lost track. I have also made reacquaintances with some of my military friends and high school classmates. I have not used social media as often.
Yes, I think we both should do that if we want to make relationship much stronger. I don't mind deleting apps. Who knows, I might fall for another girl which might lead to cheating? It's better to delete all social media/ messaging apps. I don't want to cheat my future girlfriend. I hate cheaters.
absolutely not. that would mean my partner either doesn’t trust me or is a skeptical person. and that typicality in someone can make a relationship toxic and unhealthy and at the end it can cause fights between two people constantly.
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Anonymous
(18-24)
5 mo
No. I believe the only person who may decide that for me is myself. Especcially when that person who tries to force it has social media themselves. Even though i already deleted most of them myself because I kinda hate the dopamine-rush and addictions that comes with a lot of platforms.
Yes. No reason to keep them if he disapproves strongly enough to answer. I would ask why and hear him out. Maybe I could alleviate the uncertainty he has? He is my person. I would wish to please him as he does me... compromise!
Potentially. Social media don't mean a whole lot to me. But all the same she still has to worth sacrificing it for. I'm not going to get rid of it just because she wants me to. She's going to need to tell me why. And if I don't believe her the answer is "no".
Yes I would because it's not worth the problem between you and her. A problem like that is a Cancer that will fuster into lack of trust. Lack of trust then no realistionship You can after you two get close together then ask before you bring it back. At this time she says no then it's no leave it alone.
Yea at least most of them like Facebook ND Instagram cause I don't be on them anyway to begin with but little stuff like this girl ask guys and apps similar I would keep because u can still interact and give opinions without all the hassle
If there is that double standard, no way. That would be way too weird and controlling for me to accept. If there was any rational reason for that wish (I doubt that there even could be), I would talk about it with him and probably try to find some middle ground. But if he demanded that for no reason while keeping his own, I would see that actually a bit alarming. That’s a red flag right there. 🤨
No, I have years of pictures and interactions on mine. I also have not misbehaved. If someone is using it to cheat and can't behave, then it should be erased.
Not cool with the double standard so I’ll delete mine if he does.
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Anonymous
(30-35)
5 mo
Certainly not. If he intends to keep his account, then why should I have to delete mine? It's the only way I can keep in touch with my extended family and friends as we live all over the place, so it's nice to see what they are up to.
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i don't care whether they still have it or not. i won't. end of story. certain things aren't my partners business to decide. she can nicely ask and i'll politely say no. but she certainly can't demand it and if that' a deal breaker to her... you know there's plenty guys out there. she's not forced to be with me.
In short, depends why.
If I only use it to check for shops and follow purposeful accounts, where my account is private and I don't post anything about myself, then I won't.
And why do they want me to delete it, if there's a valid reason then okay.
Otherwise, no.
I would doubt that I would delete my social media account. I use my social media account to keep track of my children. Since I have been on social media I've made contact with family members I've lost track. I have also made reacquaintances with some of my military friends and high school classmates. I have not used social media as often.
I wouldn't. It's always a sign of wanting to control the other person. I would rather help them feel more secure in a healthier way.
True that's a major red flag for me
Yes, I think we both should do that if we want to make relationship much stronger. I don't mind deleting apps. Who knows, I might fall for another girl which might lead to cheating? It's better to delete all social media/ messaging apps. I don't want to cheat my future girlfriend. I hate cheaters.
absolutely not. that would mean my partner either doesn’t trust me or is a skeptical person.
and that typicality in someone can make a relationship toxic and unhealthy and at the end it can cause fights between two people constantly.
No. I believe the only person who may decide that for me is myself. Especcially when that person who tries to force it has social media themselves. Even though i already deleted most of them myself because I kinda hate the dopamine-rush and addictions that comes with a lot of platforms.
Yes. No reason to keep them if he disapproves strongly enough to answer. I would ask why and hear him out. Maybe I could alleviate the uncertainty he has? He is my person. I would wish to please him as he does me... compromise!
Adding to it. I'd expect then the same from him!
Potentially. Social media don't mean a whole lot to me. But all the same she still has to worth sacrificing it for. I'm not going to get rid of it just because she wants me to. She's going to need to tell me why. And if I don't believe her the answer is "no".
Yes I would because it's not worth the problem between you and her. A problem like that is a Cancer that will fuster into lack of trust. Lack of trust then no realistionship
You can after you two get close together then ask before you bring it back. At this time she says no then it's no leave it alone.
Yea at least most of them like Facebook ND Instagram cause I don't be on them anyway to begin with but little stuff like this girl ask guys and apps similar I would keep because u can still interact and give opinions without all the hassle
If there is that double standard, no way. That would be way too weird and controlling for me to accept. If there was any rational reason for that wish (I doubt that there even could be), I would talk about it with him and probably try to find some middle ground. But if he demanded that for no reason while keeping his own, I would see that actually a bit alarming. That’s a red flag right there. 🤨
I am in love with my partner, so yes if I knew it meant a lot to him. But we don't have this sort of control issues with each other, so it's all good.
no.
1-who is she to give me an ultimatum?
2- wants me to delete it while she keeps it? not just unfair but also reeks suspiciousness.
Is existence possible without likes and followers?
If I delete my media, how can I be sure that I ever was?
No one will know what I had for dinner, or where I went last Sunday.
My partner will not be that cruel to me.
No, I have years of pictures and interactions on mine. I also have not misbehaved. If someone is using it to cheat and can't behave, then it should be erased.
WTF has social media got to do with anything?
Deleting porn site accounts I can understand, but social media? It's like saying you are not allowed to watch a news channel.
If he told me to delete it then no, if we talked about it and he asked me nicely to then I probably would!
Not cool with the double standard so I’ll delete mine if he does.
Certainly not. If he intends to keep his account, then why should I have to delete mine? It's the only way I can keep in touch with my extended family and friends as we live all over the place, so it's nice to see what they are up to.