What CAN you achieve in your relationship if you set your heart on it?

[lightbulb27]

Think about it... it's this hard to train to be in shape, to take on the hardest of challenges. Do you really work hard enough to better yourself, to learn and grow? Nothing good... is easy.

Listen to video... then figure out what you are gonna do to get into "relationship" shape...

Eye of the tiger brutus...

I can... I will...

[NathanDavis]

yeah... took me around 12 years of working on myself up-hill... and also with "very little" since I was a kid, and a teen, so... not really the most prepared to deal with a few things

second part of my life has been a more steady ride, but always a work on progress...

once you achieve a positive change and outcome, then you do have to dedicate to maintain yourself on course... I would not call it that much of a struggle though

I've never "struggled" in a relationship, I don't see it as a challenge to endure... I just pair myself with someone that's actually dedicated to the other and also open to receive and get all they are given

[lightbulb27]

yea true. I'm thinking of those not in relationship that are not getting what they want. It can be a struggle...

[NathanDavis]

must struggle comes when we're not ready or not willing to give what it takes...

that, is the real struggle

[lightbulb27]

absolutely! Love must FLOW!!! It's a flowing thing!

[exitseven]

I used to be pretty closed up. I did not trust people much and expected the worst in people and most of the time I would be right. It caused a lot of problems in my marriage at first. I really tried to work on it and learned I could trust somebody.

[lightbulb27]

and seems when we expect the worst, will get that. Trust is the most important formed early in life, and fragile. Glad you found your way.
Hope you all have a wonderful Christmas!

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[IslaTheWitch]

Unfortunately, it depends not only on me.

Even if I put all my heart and soul, without the cooperation from my partner, nothing can be achieved

But if we both decide to give our hearts and souls, the sky is the limit

[lightbulb27]

Agree.

[kingmaker21]

Heart designed to make you weak...
There no crime if you use mind in relationship rather then heart.

[VIVANT]

A weak heart is a weak person not the hearts fault. People save lives and win freedom through passion. Passion can be negative or positive or neutral but it is a strong force either way.

[kingmaker21]

Passion start from mind nothing to do with heart...

[lightbulb27]

Everyone different. Mind important... but the heart is what going to make it possible... has to be in synch.

[Anonymous]

If you're doing it just for your partner you're doing it for the wrong reason. You should push yourself for your own sake. Their enjoyment that comes from that is just the benefit. If you choose a good partner this problem should take care of itself. Good women are in short supply. Men make the mistake of thinking all women are the same and choose very bad partners that they should never have even considered. Choose good women from the getgo and this fixes 90% of the problem.