Would latina women date a white conservative traditional American man? Is it something they ever think about doing? What do they think of us?

[Anonymous]

Case be told, I’m a conservative traditional white American male.

I find latina women attractive. They’re approachable. Easy to talk to. Mature. Reasonable. Modest. Traditional. Feminine. Charming. Intelligent. Very self-aware

I’ve had hours long conversations with several of them.

Of course I’m generalizing and every individual girl can vary, but on the whole I do really like them.

On the contrary, I would NOT assign the listed above traits to women as a whole in my country.

They tend to be loud, impulsive, emotionally immature, unreliable, closed off, unavailable, and just all around narcissistic and entitled people.

Now is that true for every American woman?

Obviously not, but on the whole I do not find myself wanting to date American women.

Anyway I know it sounds weird to say but I’m strongly convinced that I’d want a latina wife in the future.

My ideal situation is to marry, have children when the time feels right, have the usual sex, intimacy things like that, and to just both support eachother and feel deeply in love. The latter being by far and away the most important.

Aside from that though I’m mainly just curious about how open a latina would be about moving to the US to be with an American guy if he were a traditional guy and had a house and the income to support a family and things like that.

Are there any latina women looking, or hoping, to be with an American guy?

Like part of me wonders if in the same way I envision having a latina wife in the future, they envision having an American husband in the future.

[Anonymous]

Yes I’m sure they would. If she’s raised traditionally as well than yes there’s a good chance she would. Because if she’s like my girlfriend who is Latina, she was raised traditionally, so she takes care of the house, the kids when they were younger. She hasn’t worked for 20 years. I take care of her in many ways just as much as she takes care of me. She actually likes it. It’s not something I forced on her. I come home to warm food, clean clothes. I will say though some women I have dated that were Latina I felt bad for them. Maybe they were just use to it but I remember this one time. My girl at the time, had a little brother. I met her mom for the first time. Her mom started getting into her about not doing this or that for me or serving me. But what I wasn’t too fond of was the mom asked the son what he wanted to eat for breakfast. He said steak and eggs w tortillas. So his mom cooked it. She asked me at the same time what I wanted. I said I’ll just have the same. She’s like no if you want something else just tell me. I said I’m good w that. But I felt that was a little overboard, especially cos dieting the boy was barely 9. But maybe her mom was used to it so it wasn’t a big deal to her. I just felt bad for my girl at the time. Store we went inside my girl at the time told me to let her serve me. She said I know you like serving yourself but my mom will get onto me if I don’t.

[Asker]

Yeah I see what you mean. Having a girl morally reprimanded by her strict parents can be kinda tough to watch.

At the same time though are you also a white dude or a latino dude?

Part of me suspects they might still feel more inclined to date within their own culture and stuff

[Opinion Owner]

I’m Native American. I’d say if you’re looking for that you try someone who maybe came from a Latin country, not so much Americanize because a lot of American women have no morals, no tradition, treat men w disrespect, etc. Yes for those women who are going to say well men do the same, yes there are some.

[molonski2]

I can tell you 100% they would be utterly rapt to date you , zero doubt for sure.

[Asker]

Oh fr? What makes you so confident in that? Haha

[molonski2]

You a young dude from USA , you look good , you have conviction , and they are not into all the WOKE shit , so many options man.

[Asker]

That’s great to hear! 🙏 💯

[Apple1996]

I think you could find a Latina woman to marry but they are not easy to be with from what I've heard. a lot of drama and fighting

[Selliebeanz]

Not wrong lol

[Asker]

Well, if you’d ever met my Mom you’d know I’m used to it

[Apple1996]

Oh no you are use to fighting and drama? 😣

[Jkgordon]

They use voodoo too they be buying candle shape like penis lol

[Apple1996]

@Jkgordon oh wow 😳

[Selliebeanz]

Yeah they'd be chill with you. I'm half Mexican and so I know the culture sort of. I like the traditional set up as well, but not many traditional guys nowadays here. You'll find you a girl!

[Asker]

You mean in the US there aren’t many traditional guys? Or Mexico included?

[Selliebeanz]

No in the US. Thing I never got along with when it came to Mexican guys was it's like theyre kinda domineering to an uncomfortable degree and still liked to cheat. Not all are like that but a lot.

[Asker]

When you say “domineering to an uncomfortable degree” does that mean guys not wanting their wives to talk to other men? Just trying to understand.

[Selliebeanz]

Domineering as in dictating what you wear (even if it's not revealing) just acting like women are an extension of them and not independent agents.

[Asker]

Word. So long as the girl doesn’t dress like a slut in public, I’d see no issue

[Jamie05rhs]

You talk about her moving to the U. S. But yet there are already a TON of beautiful Latina women already here.
Are you saying that the ones who already live here are not wife material because they've already been assimilated into our toxic American culture?

[Asker]

Possibly. I wouldn’t know personally though because I haven’t really come across them.

[Jamie05rhs]

You haven't come across Latinas? Geez. Where do you live?

[Asker]

Not where I live in the US, no

[Asker]

Also, that’s a bit personal

[Jamie05rhs]

Sorry; it was a rhetorical question. Lol.

[Radiate143]

There are SO MANY conservative Latinas so I don't know why you think this is such a challenge. Do you want a chola girl or something? 💃🏽

[Asker]

Well I don’t live near any of them so IRDK what kind of guys they’re into.

[avery58]

Well I'm Latina but not from Latin America, I mean I was born and raised here in the states so I don't know if you just want the opinion of those living abroad... but yeah for sure you look like an attractive and decent guy to me.

[getwiththepg]

Probably. The world loves white men before anything else

[Asker]

I thought we were the ones media was starting to call the evil racists though

[getwiththepg]

They are, but you guys are still the gold standard. All my white friends get wayyyy more play than anyone that I know

[getwiththepg]

As in you guys get called evil. Not saying you are lmao

[Asker]

Oh I see. Are you in NY or Cali?

[Asker]

Yeah no, you’re cool, I got u 👍

[getwiththepg]

I’m in Ontario, Canada my brotha

[Asker]

Got u. If the photo is really you tho, than I do imagine you must attract some women too tho

[getwiththepg]

Lmao yeah that’s me & honestly the better looking I got the more recessed I became. Perhaps women find me attractive but I’ve only slept with a handful of women. I don’t really go out of my way to approach or be on dating sites. That’s one reason why I hate going to clubs.

[Asker]

I’m kinda the same way. I figure I could do better if I tried more but I’m honestly mostly just an introvert that does my own thing too

[getwiththepg]

If you want women in abundance yeah you got to go out of your way & shoot your shot for sure. I prefer meeting women through mutuals truthfully. Parties & whatnot. A bit easier.

[Jkgordon]

You have a chance I’ve see these couples

[Asker]

So they are relatively common?

[Jkgordon]

Yes they are common esp in big cities
Think of Ben affleck & j lo Google them actors

[TiaNour]

I LOVE UR HAT

[Asker]

Ayeee thanks 😊🙏

[serenalovesramen]

most of us would