Yes which is why my guy lied about how much he drinks once we met as well as why i try to help him find other ways to cope with whatever issues he's dealing with at work. I couldn’t stick around if it continued
Absolutely. I have seen a friend descending into alcoholism and all the disgusting effects of it. I have distanced myself because of it, no way I would tolerate that in a relationship!
By your definition absolutely. Somone who's not even in control of her life shouldn't be dating she should be getting help (applies to men too but I say she since I only date women)
yes, i don't agree with that. it's fine to have a drink once in awhile, but to be dependent on that and to completely mess up your liver is just not a good look
9 out of 10 times yes. However I would have grace for someone who joined AA and had been sober for at least a year.
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Absolutely, my Dad was kind of an alcoholic. On the weekends he’d drink until his mind is gone. And the things he’d say to my mom and my sister and I. He’d say some perverse shit to my sis and I as teens.
Absolutely a dealbreaker! I wouldn't tolerate that in a partner. It s a sign of self-control lack.
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Anonymous
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Personally, I’d like a guy that’s not afraid to drink as I like to drink, but only socially. I have a rule if I work 24 hours from then I will not have a drink. I want my boyfriend to do the same. If they drink every day then yes I’m not interested.
My alcoholism is acceptable, alcoholism of my partner is not. lol
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Yes, all addictions are. But unfortunately those addictions don't reveal themselves straight away, as the partner will need to spend a good chunk of time with this person before figuring it all out
Absolutely. There are enough relationship issues without that. So why would you want to even get into a relationship with someone who has a serious habit that makes things even worse?
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Yes which is why my guy lied about how much he drinks once we met as well as why i try to help him find other ways to cope with whatever issues he's dealing with at work. I couldn’t stick around if it continued
Absolutely as is mental health and drug addiction.
You would be setting yourself up for misery and failure.
Absolutely. I have seen a friend descending into alcoholism and all the disgusting effects of it. I have distanced myself because of it, no way I would tolerate that in a relationship!
By your definition absolutely.
Somone who's not even in control of her life shouldn't be dating she should be getting help (applies to men too but I say she since I only date women)
yes, i don't agree with that. it's fine to have a drink once in awhile, but to be dependent on that and to completely mess up your liver is just not a good look
Been in that kind of relationship and it's not worth it to me
I dated somebody who may have been an alcoholic. It was fun for a while until it got out of control. I do not think I would want to do it again.
9 out of 10 times yes. However I would have grace for someone who joined AA and had been sober for at least a year.
Absolutely, my Dad was kind of an alcoholic. On the weekends he’d drink until his mind is gone. And the things he’d say to my mom and my sister and I. He’d say some perverse shit to my sis and I as teens.
I hate drinkers, so absolutely. I don't mind a casual drinker but an alcoholic is too much to deal with.
Absolutely a dealbreaker! I wouldn't tolerate that in a partner. It s a sign of self-control lack.
Personally, I’d like a guy that’s not afraid to drink as I like to drink, but only socially. I have a rule if I work 24 hours from then I will not have a drink. I want my boyfriend to do the same. If they drink every day then yes I’m not interested.
I wouldn't be with someone that regularly drank alcohol. Even if she stopped, the damage to her eggs/future children would already be done.
What is alcoholism? Do you like a drink or can you not live without a drink? How well do you function? Do you experience uncontrollable rage?
In theory everyone is an alcoholic, but some of us just never had a drink.
No matter how attracted I might be to a guy...
If he's alcoholic, forget it!
My alcoholism is acceptable, alcoholism of my partner is not. lol
Yes, all addictions are. But unfortunately those addictions don't reveal themselves straight away, as the partner will need to spend a good chunk of time with this person before figuring it all out
Absolutely. There are enough relationship issues without that. So why would you want to even get into a relationship with someone who has a serious habit that makes things even worse?
as an alcoholic i have no problem being with myself
Any alcohol beyond 'occasionally' is too much.