When exactly do you think cheating is acceptable?

[Charly05]

or is it just never acceptable? what if the person is in a forced commitment?

[BadApple69]

I have been cheated on and I have cheated. Where morally I don’t find it ever acceptable, but realistically everyone cheats at sometime or another… and before I get these 20 year olds screaming “ILL NEVER CHEAT”. Just wait…. I was in a sexless marriage with a woman that told me constantly that she hated me…. To me… it was ok to cheat. Didn’t hide it… and when she was curtain my relationship with someone else was real she became nice again. Told me she didn’t really hate me. Even said she really loved me…. Some Women play games and use sex as a weapon. Men have choices… women, make it where we want to choose you.

[crazy_worthless]

I've got to say, I've been w/my husband for going on 22yrs now. We've been married this year well be 12 years now. I'VE NEVER CHEATED ON MY HUSBAND! Unfortunate he's cheated on me@least 1 time I know of. He won't admit to anything else. He says kissing ain't cheating tho

[MrOracle]

It's never acceptable. If your relationship is so bad that you would consider cheating, and if your partner won't get counseling with you, then END the relationship. But cheating is never the answer.

[wolfcat87]

I've seen times where it was understandable. I don't know that it's ever a good thing, but sometimes cheating is the best choice for a person. Not the majority of the time people cheat though, most cheaters just suck.

For example, if you can't leave without hurting your children. If your partner is in a coma long term or unable to meet sexual needs. After you've thoroughly discussed things with your partner with no resolution and are miserable, but never lie about it.

[laurieluvsit]

When there is abuse involved.

Like some girls don't know how to get out of an abusive relationship and feel trapped so they reach out for help by someone that will treat them like the queen that they are and not like the scum that is treating them the same.

[Joshydavid25]

I think cheating is the last thing on anybody's mind in those situations.. Even then, two wrongs don't make a right..

[laurieluvsit]

@Joshydavid25
I would have to differ with you that getting away from violent abuse in any way possible is not wrong.

[Joshydavid25]

Cheating is definitely not getting away from the relationship, and in fact might make it worse.. Not to mention anybody that stays in an abusive situation is likely to be very unhealthy, and probably wouldn't last long in a healthy relationship.. There's a reason they have a hard time getting away from abusers, it's not because they can't, but they are too unhealthily emotionally attached.. But also most Domestic violence situations are mutual.. Meaning they're hitting each other..

[LiamJHayden]

I would suggest that remaining due to threat is not a relationship, so cheating is not possible.

[laurieluvsit]

@Joshydavid25
You are either not understanding what I am saying or your thinking is very distorted.

@LiamJHayden
Thank you Mr Liam

[Joshydavid25]

I understand what you're saying.. I'm putting it in more realistic terms than what would happen in a movie..

[91bryce91]

@Joshydavid25 ahhh so. Ancient proverb. Confucius say two wongs dont make a white

[Joshydavid25]

@91bryce91 Just to be clear.. Cheating is nowhere near as bad a being severely abusive.. And I get she was saying that if the victim happens to find somebody that treats them like the queen that they are, that cheating is somewhat acceptable... But at that point you might as well wait til you could break it off, and than run off with the guy that treats her better..

[91bryce91]

@Joshydavid25 we aren't being clear, you are stating your opinion.
If a chick gets punched out by her boyfriend she should call the police.
If the chick decides to stay with her boyfriend it isn't victimhood its masochism.
And she deserves it. Fullstop.
Was i clear?

[Joshydavid25]

@91bryce91 I don't disagree with you... Except the last part.. Lmao.. I don't she deserves it..

[Joshydavid25]

@91bryce91 Also, I just paid attention to your joke.. Lmao..

[AviatorTom]

Cheating is never acceptable. If a couple has separated and/or on their way to divorce, having sex with someone other than your partner is not cheating, understandable and acceptable.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I don’t think it’s ever acceptable.

[StarWarGirl]

Never.

This is not era of slavery. No can force you to be in any relationship. If you believe you are forced to do something then a small part of you has accepted that too. No one is keeping gun point on your head all the time to do something.

Instead of telling you are "forced" to do something. It's actually your cowardness that you are doing something but wants to blame others for your cowardness.

[JacobJordan]

Never acceptable. You end the relationship first then go find someone else. Cheating regardless of circumstances or reasons makes it easier to cheat in the future and as a result destroys nearly any chance at a healthy happy relationship. If you can't sit down and tell your partner you are unhappy and want out which takes far less time than getting humped by some random guy that just means you have no respect for yourself, your partner, or the person you are cheating with.

[patrick994]

If my girlfriend meets all my demands in the bedroom, respects me and behaves well with me, I cannot cheat on her, it would be unacceptable!

Even if the most beautiful woman in the world proposed, if I am comfortable with my partner as mentioned above, I would never cheat on my partner.

[ProbablyClueless]

The only time cheating is ever acceptable is when you have two spouses who have agreed that their relationship is over, but that they either can't or aren't willing to get a formalized divorce.

It's rare, but I have met people who are in that situation.

[bobalife]

n e v e r acceptable. It’s a choice to stay committed, stay in love, and choose your partner everyday. Not sure why people just can’t break up before heading that direction because it only cause more heart breaks, problems, and traumas.

[Anonymous]

Asking a question like this is similar to asking “When is racism acceptable” or “when is pedophilia acceptable” like come on. There are no “forced commitments” unless you mean one of an abusive partner, and even in that case, cheating on their partner should be the least of their concerns and need to be more focused on leaving the relationship and healing.

[91bryce91]

racism isn't akin to paedophillia, thats just ur brainwashing.
racism is essential to survival. Its biblical. God for example is racist as fuck all through the bible.
If y call jesus a kiddyfiddler he's gonna smite you, babycakes

[Opinion Owner]

@91bryce91 “Biblical” is a laugh considering I’m an atheist. You have fun with that.

[91bryce91]

id love to be an atheist. u can wank to lesbian porn without eternal punishment in the back of ur mind.
But its a tough belief to maintain when you're smarter than a potato.

[Opinion Owner]

@91bryce91 Thanks

[Billlewis]

Any time the woman wants to pursue an extramarital or non exclusive sexual relationship with another guy, I'm wholeheartedly in favor of it, but guys should always remain 100% faithful and exclusive to the woman, in my opinion.

[Carly2005]

Never I seen what it can do. My friends dad took his life once he found out none of his kids was his.

[rebeliouse]

wow what on earth did he see in his wife! @Carly2005

[rebeliouse]

@Carly2005
your cute

[KrakenAttackin]

@Carly2005. And the evil wife did not care one bit.

[KrakenAttackin]

Meanwhile your friend doesn't know his real dad. This is the essence of modern women.

[RebelinSteel]

It is never acceptable, if for whatever reason one of the people in the relationship needed to see someone else, then they both must talk about it. Cheating is never acceptable.

[Amara_09]

Cheating is never acceptable regardless of what the situation is. SIMPLE AS THAT!


Just like killing, Killing is not acceptable regardless of what the situation is.

[katiesmuff]

Not sure how you can possibly be in a forced commitment in the real world. I guess some of these third world shit countries might still have some backasswards ideas.

[Monalisa77]

Is it acceptable if someone is in an abusive and controlling relationship?

[KrakenAttackin]

@Monalisa77. Telling a modern woman "no" is considered "abusive" these days.

[Monalisa77]

I meant real abuse

[KrakenAttackin]

@Monalisa77. Setting boundaries such as "don't go clubbing with your hoe friends", is considered "controlling".

[Monalisa77]

You clearly never been abused to know what i mean then

[KrakenAttackin]

@Monalisa77. I know what passes for "abused" these days.

[Hulk_kitty]

Its never acceptable, if a person wants to sleep with many people, then they should stay single.

[Anonymous]

You must cheat if you are not getting enough sex from your girlfriend or wife. You should cheat if your girlfriend or wife refuse to have regular sex. You must cheat if your girlfriend or wife refuse to get pregnant and deliver babies. Cheating is acceptable in the matter of babies, sexual needs and sexual happiness.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Then girls must cheat more , if the guys is not handsome.

[Opinion Owner]

Girls already cheat more than men.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Nope. What I observed, man cheat more than woman.
Anyways u said cheating isn't wrong, then what's wrong. If girls do cheating more than man

[Opinion Owner]

@myloveforuisinfinte Nope I don't think so. Girls pretend to be naive and nice but they are not.

I have cheated my wife bcoz she refused to have regular sex and have babies. I told her later.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Boys are not that innocent and dumb. They pretend to be nice and good but they are hella cheaters, liers , and manipulative kind of. They do back bitching better than girls.
Huh
(exceptions are there, like genuine girl and boy who are actually good, but these kind of people are few , and they deserve better)
Well it's better u cheated on your wife. Hope she divorced u after that , she deserves better tbh. She needs someone who actually love her, care about her and supports her in every good and bad aspects of life. vice-versa. Not someone who is a sex addict and baby addict. There are many things beyond sex and babies. Exploring life, & achieving goals together before starting a family is better. These things make couple wise and a good parent for their future children.

[Opinion Owner]

@myloveforuisinfinte I married her for love and sex. I am a mature man, I need more sex and babies. We both have good jobs, we are financially strong enough to take care of ourselves and babies. We both are full grown matured adults then why should we hesitate to enjoy sex life and have babies? We are not school kids anymore.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

U are matured and u still cheated on your wife? Lmao that doesn't make sense.
Marrying someone, then cheating and then divorcing are not joke tbh.
That's not love , that's lusttt. Accept it lol.
Anyways now marry someone who have same goals like u - sex and babie. Before marrying someone 🤣ask them first about these things.
Hope your next one don't cheat on you. Coz of some weird reasons.

[Opinion Owner]

@myloveforuisinfinte She promised me before wedding that she will have lots of sex and make babies. She knew that I have high sex drive. I decided to cheat when she lost interest in sex 2 years of the wedding.

I will divorce her when I find a mature woman with similar interests, lots of sex and babies.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Hope your next wife cheat on u too for weird reasons.

[Opinion Owner]

@myloveforuisinfinte Nobody should cheat for weird reasons.

Forget it, you will not understand it, you are still young. Give me love, lots of sex and babies, I will marry you?

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Not weird reasons, I mean if u can cheat on someone coz of sex blah blah (your reason ). Then in future anyone can cheat on u too because they find someone else more attractive, handsome, richhh, popular, intelligent and more perfect than u. That's what I want to say

But u are looking for a mature woman not a young woman.
Being someone's 2nd wife is worst lmao, by hurting someone.

[Opinion Owner]

@myloveforuisinfinte I will definitely find more attractive, beautiful, wealthy, popular, intelligent and more perfect woman than my current spouse. I will divorce her after finding that perfect girl, until then I will have sex with my wife.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Cool bro! Hope she get a good husband soon.

[tzdc21]

Let me put it this way. I'll believe that cheating is acceptable the same day money trees start growing out of the ground lol.

[WhiteThought]

It is never acceptable. If it is agreed upon before commitment that either one or both of the partners will have sex with with other people, then that's different.

[KillinItHard]

Cheating is never acceptable. If you feel the need or urge than just end your relationship before acting on your urge. That's the nice thing to do.

[Daniela1982]

Maybe if they are on their death bed and you can't wait for them to turn cold?

[XXblack88]

Never. if you're that unhappy in your relationship you need to break up before moving on to the next one.

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

Never ever acceptable and an immediate deal breaker. NO exceptions.

[WhiteSteve]

Never acceptable. If you aren’t happy, get out, and then move on, in that order.

[EmmaMary]

Cheating will never, ever be acceptable... Period.

[BoopBoopBeep]

There are no forced commitments in my country, so never.

[FreyaRed]

"forced commitment"
please elaborate

[CallmeTheKnight]

It’s never acceptable. Asking that kind of question is telling others about you

[Charly05]

what even is that, I'm asking because I read a story online about how this girl's father locked up her mother in the house and beat her because he found out that she was seeing someone else even though he was terrible to her throughout their marriage and her mother does not want to divorce him because she's very poor and only he can support her education.
don't assume things about me that you barely know of, I only asked to see what people think and how if anyone had any similar opinions/experiences

[CallmeTheKnight]

You came up with that question after reading that? Uh ok….

[Anonymous]

if you're being cheated on and dont have the guts to/dont want to leave the relationship for whatever reason

[91bryce91]

its a question of character.
If you said you'd be exclusive then cheating means you broke your word.
enough said.
dunno what forced commitment is but im assuming its how a chick justifies cheating.
chicks... smh

[91bryce91]

my ex from years ago cheated on me and i died inside.
Because we were deeply in love, at least i was.
Hit me like a punch in the gut, and
I've been wandering around for years completely dead inside.
A victory for chicks.
well played

[Radiate143]

Never. Understandable at times. Acceptable. No.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Never.

If you're unhappy, just leave.

[SoJust]

Cheating is never acceptable , once a person cheats, the relationship with that person should be broken off forever, I believe that

[genericname85]

if you were forced to do it at gun point for some reason. otherwise never.

[AngryCarl]

Cheating is never acceptable. That's why it's called cheating. It's not cheating if you're in an "open relationship".

[Crankor]

It never is. If someone is unhappy enough to that point then why are you in that relationship?

[NYlatefun]

Like…never? Just leave that person and do whatever you want.

[OtterMan68]

never, ever. Break up with the person if you have that little respect for them.

[SeaStorm1]

No is never will be and is a excuse to think is okay when is not okay.

[Hotboy_booblover]

When u r extremely horny.. and someone is easily available.. and ur mind is not working due to horniness..

[whistlingwh0res]

When two agrees to have fun outside of marriage

[laly520]

cheating can never be acceptable

[Lisia]

It's never acceptable.

[BCA6010]

There are no circumstances that justify it.

[serious]

It is never acceptable.

[sheikalana]

Literally never.

[sage2021]

It's never ok. Get some morals people!!

[Nikki1989]

It is never acceptable.

[Cutegirl06]

It's never acceptable period!

[aceleon]

never.

i mean it, NEVER.

[Phoenix98]

It’s never acceptable.

[CoolCatMar1]

It's never acceptable.

[Joshydavid25]

It's not.. It's never acceptable..

[magiusX26]

N
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[Drumlin2001]

It's never acceptable

[CozyCoffin]

I don't. I hate them all.

[worldscolide]

Never, end of story, end of discussion.

[Layla00]

it’s nit acceptable at all

[Anonymous]

Never. Ever. Ever.

[LiamJHayden]

Never. Just break up.

[nik0102]

Are you in a forced commitment?