You ever dated someone that tried to control you , that demanded you to do something without politely asking you just demanding you do what they say?

[Finchie40]

Instead of asking you politely , they automatically say to you , we are doing this , or we are doing that? Etc. why do some partners’ feel they have control over what you do? Would you tolerate this type of controlling behavior in a relationship? Or would you tell them To Go Fuck themselves , and tell them , you can’t tell me what to do?

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I had an ex who tried to give me an ultimatum to quit smoking or else she'll leave me. I took the second option.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/ZPO6dOPxmr8

The problem wasn't her request (I even quit smoking not long after). It was the way she asked!

[CozyCoffin]

One woman I had a first date with was a disaster, but what drove me to not seek a second was that she demanded that I go to her church. In my opinion, such a subject should be approached later, either when wanting exclusivity or when proposal of marriage occurs and they express that you convert to their religion.

[Finchie40]

Yea that sounds borderline psychotic lol

[selfish-and-cruel]

I didn't date this MF, but he followed me on campus for some time, shouting his demands loudly. One day, in the canteen, he made my patience run thin, and I yelled at him, "Take this microscopic thing away from me!" and he disappeared. Two years later, I was still hearing stories of this event.

[Billlewis]

Yes, and I try to find as many women like that as possible.

[Finchie40]

LOL I know you do Bill , you can have them lol

[Fireguy17]

yeppers, I have a couple of ex's that were like that.

[NathanDavis]

no... I've never picked a psycho before

[WhitneySnow]

Luckily I haven’t. I would not tolerate it.

[LemonJuicee]

Yeah, my ex boyfriend from high school

[Darkest-Knight]

Yep. She's an ex now.

[dean53AU]

Yep my ex from years ago