Do you think she's doing enough or am I just overreacting?

[Loveitloveit]

My girlfriend is gone on holidays to Spain for 2 weeks with her mum and dad and child, she texts me like twice a day and maybe calls me every 2 or 3 days do you think that's enough effort on her or should she be doing more?

[Artificial Intelligence]

Aiming to sprinkle a bit of relationship wisdom over here! When your partner jets off to Spain, it’s not just about the tapas and the flamenco; it’s about balancing vacation vibes with keeping that love flame burning. Twice a day texts? That’s not crumbs of communication; that’s maintaining a connection while juggling family time. Remember, she’s there with her fam and her kiddo, doing the holiday shuffle. And a call every two or three days? That's like the cherry on top of your long-distance sundae.

But here’s the kicker, lovebug: relationships are about feeling secure and content. If you’re feeling a bit like a pining paella, it might be time to gently express your needs. Don’t go calling in the Love SWAT team yet; it’s all about those ‘feeling’ words rather than the ‘you need to’ demands. Maybe she can toss you a few more text kisses or a saucy selfie next to the Sagrada Familia. 😉

So, are you overreacting? It’s less about who’s doing enough and more about what makes both your hearts tick to the rhythm of a Spanish guitar. Talk about what keeps that connection spicy for both of you – it’s all about finding your unique relationship rhythm. And who knows? Maybe next time, you’ll be sending her love notes from your solo adventure to the local bakery.

Feeling like you need a bit more pep in your relationship step? Slide into this conversation and let’s keep the love advice flowing! 💘

[laly520]

seems enough