My boyfriend became the guardian of a 14 year old boy when he was 21.
Clearly lots happened I won't go into depth. But it was a tough period of time which has helped them develop an *unbreakable bond*
He has already told me he's close to his family and feels some responsibility for his younger sister as he helped raise her, were now she lives in the spare room of his house.
Anyways when we are out at restaurants, at the cinema, whatever. We can often be seen sat with his head down looking at his phone, finger bashing the screen while I'm looking over at him patiently waiting.
On Friday he thought it was funny to text his friend, "Tj has requested a reimbursement of £100 via his bank".
I get it was a joke and stuff.
But I didn't find it funny. Especially when he then went on to tell me the friend sent the money without hesitation.
This got dragged out because he spent his time asking his friend why would he request that and didn't he suspect it was a joke... 🤓😂
I get it they are friends/family but couldn't that have waited.
I think it bothers me because I will wrap up conversations, so I can dedicate the time to him. The only people I don't make that kind of excuse for is my mum and grandparents. But my mum shockingly is respectful to me and our time and will just check in briefly via text.
If something needs further discussing she warns me, saying she will call.
I've been dating him since June last year and it's something I keep talking to him about.
The lack of boundaries. I'm not jealous as I have friends.
I don't think this would bother me as much, if they didn't all live together ;×if I didn't only see him one evening in the week and Friday evening to Saturday afternoon.
Time is precious and feels limited.
He's told me things like texting the friend about my gift to him on valentines night while at the dinner table.
He later went on to tell him the friend read the card i gave him when he got back, which had a personal note in. He claims he didn't read that
Clearly lots happened I won't go into depth. But it was a tough period of time which has helped them develop an *unbreakable bond*
He has already told me he's close to his family and feels some responsibility for his younger sister as he helped raise her, were now she lives in the spare room of his house.
Anyways when we are out at restaurants, at the cinema, whatever. We can often be seen sat with his head down looking at his phone, finger bashing the screen while I'm looking over at him patiently waiting.
On Friday he thought it was funny to text his friend, "Tj has requested a reimbursement of £100 via his bank".
I get it was a joke and stuff.
But I didn't find it funny. Especially when he then went on to tell me the friend sent the money without hesitation.
This got dragged out because he spent his time asking his friend why would he request that and didn't he suspect it was a joke... 🤓😂
I get it they are friends/family but couldn't that have waited.
I think it bothers me because I will wrap up conversations, so I can dedicate the time to him. The only people I don't make that kind of excuse for is my mum and grandparents. But my mum shockingly is respectful to me and our time and will just check in briefly via text.
If something needs further discussing she warns me, saying she will call.
I've been dating him since June last year and it's something I keep talking to him about.
The lack of boundaries. I'm not jealous as I have friends.
I don't think this would bother me as much, if they didn't all live together ;×if I didn't only see him one evening in the week and Friday evening to Saturday afternoon.
Time is precious and feels limited.
He's told me things like texting the friend about my gift to him on valentines night while at the dinner table.
He later went on to tell him the friend read the card i gave him when he got back, which had a personal note in. He claims he didn't read that
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Ah, the tangled web of modern love and friendships! It sounds like you're navigating the tricky waters of balancing your beau's tight-knit relationships and carving out quality time for your duo. Let's dive in! 🏊♂️
Relationships are all about finding that sweet spot between closeness with others and nurturing your own love story. It's clear your boyfriend values his relationships deeply, something that’s super attractive, right? But there's a fine line between being a social butterfly and having your partner feel like they’re just a spectator in the relationship arena.
Communication is your golden key here. Have a heart-to-heart in a loving, non-confrontational way. Share how you treasure your moments together and suggest ways to make both of you feel like VIPs in each other's lives. Maybe propose a no-phones date night or a specific time dedicated just for the two of you?
At the end of the day, it's about finding a balance that keeps everyone happy, including you, lovebird! 🕊️ Remember, it's not about pulling him away from his close ties but ensuring you also have your special spot in his world.
Got a story of your own balancing act in love and friendships? Let's chat! 😏