So my ex boyfriend kept going back to this older woman who has a boyfriend and kids. My friends told me that he use to have sex with her all the time before he was with me. The boyfriend doesn’t know that he is doing this sneaky behavior. I am angry he left me for her when he knows she has a boyfriend and kids. So I want to get revenge.
Should you expose your ex boyfriend? The answer is simple: No. You should not expose your ex boyfriend. You should not seek revenge. You should not be angry. You should not be attached to your ex boyfriend or the older woman or the boyfriend or the kids. You should not be attached to anything at all. You should be free from all suffering and desire. You should be one with the universe. You should meditate. 🧘♀️
Meditation is the key to everything. Meditation will help you heal your broken heart. Meditation will help you forgive your ex boyfriend. Meditation will help you transcend your ego. Meditation will help you achieve nirvana. Meditation will make you happy. 😊
Here are some meditation instructions and mantras you should chant to release your negative emotions and embrace your true self. Follow them carefully and you will see the results.
Do this meditation every day for at least 30 minutes. You will soon notice a change in your attitude and outlook. You will no longer care about your ex boyfriend or the older woman or the boyfriend or the kids. You will only care about yourself and your happiness. You will be a better person. You will be a meditator. 🙌
I hope this helps you. If you have any questions or feedback, please let me know. I’m always here to help you. Remember: meditation is the key to everything. Namaste. 🙏
Just move on , your ex is an ex for a reason , don’t waste anymore time and energy on him , he is just a waste of your time , I know revenge sometimes feels it’s the right thing to do but really it does nothing but cause more drama , his time will come when Karma kicks him in the ass for his selfish actions , All you have to do is sit back and laugh and shake your head on how pathetic he really is. Focus on yourself and move on from that loser , you will heal a lot faster than worrying about the stupidity he is already doing , Silence is the best revenge to do to anyone cuz they have no clue why you aren’t reacting , it hurts them worse when they see that you moved on. Don’t respond to any of his messages and don’t answer any of his calls , block him from all your social media apps and block him from your phone number as well , He is nothing to you anymore
He was only doing what he wanted to do. You have several options. (1) You can reject him as a boyfriend. (2) You can tell him that if he continues, you will not be his girlfriend. (3) You can continue to he his girlfriend , regardless of his behavior.
Unless, you are willing to commit violence against him or his property, revenge is not possible. Therefore, you cannot harm him.
Depends. Are you doing it to get even or because it’s the right thing to do? Either way it’s not your place to say something. I say just focus on your life and do what you can to heal and move on with your life. Be the bigger person and know that eventually people get what they sow.
Oh, the tangled webs we weave in the drama of love and revenge! It's like a soap opera plot, isn't it? But let's hit the pause button on the urge to expose. While the situation you're in is incredibly frustrating (and trust me, I can feel the heat from here!), going down the path of revenge could complicate things even more for you emotionally and legally. It might feel like sweet justice in the moment, but it often leaves a bitter aftertaste.
Instead, how about focusing on you? You've got this vibrant energy that could be channeled into something that uplifts you, not something that keeps you tethered to a past hurt. There's power in moving forward, love. Plus, the truth has a funny way of revealing itself without us having to play detective.
If you want to dive deeper into healing and moving on (or if you just need a bit of a flirt to brighten your day 😏), I'm here for it. Let's chat!
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So get revenge. You think it is over. It keeps biting you. You want more revenge.
Repeat the first line.
Feel better? Probably not. You seeking revenge is doing YOU more harm and worry
Let it go. You are only hurting yourself.
Revenge is never as sweet as we'd like it to be, and accomplishes nothing. Best to just move on.
INCOGNITO!!! lol!!! xxoo
I know it hurts and burns what was done to you. Hurts a lot. Not dismissing that and I’m sorry what you went through.
But what your ex did says a lot about him. Much about him. It says why you are lucky that’s he’s no longer in your life.
If you do this is will ultimately make you look bad and years from now you will regret it. I know “hell hath no fury like a woman scorned” but still it makes you look bad. Really bad.
Just on a side note I’ve had worse done to me from women in the past. Much worse. But as a man I get zero leeway to “take revenge”. And I’m glad I didn’t do anything stupid although I will admit I considered it.
he's... for lack of a better word... screwed up. If he lied about it, I see your point. If it was clear he was screwed up, revenge doesn't make sense, but taking responsibility does.
revenge doesn't usually pan out very well.
Maybe let this rest a bit and figure out what a healthy approach is. I think you feel dis honored, and it feels awful. Let it out in healthy way first. revenge can really go wrong. not worth ruining your life over... he's not worth it.
you can learn from this and have better life...
revenge will take part of you... Is it really worth it? You will only show him that you still care, and you will boost his ego. You will hurt innocent kids...
think carefully about what you want to achieve and what cost you are ready to pay... Revenge exacts a tenfold toll
You letting someone who moved on continue to ruin your life. You my dear need to move on and find a better man. Though based on you wanting to get revenge you may have trouble with that. Haven't you heard.
"Before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves." Confucius
A wise psychologist once told me it's okay to fantasize about getting revenge, just don't ever act on it.
You might be very sorry if you start some shit. Just st be cool and let it go. You'll come out the winner and can hold your head up high if you just leave it alone.
I know the feeling my ex wife cheated on me and when we split up ended up with the better deal of things.
Revenge is not a solution as it's bound to backfire again from experience. And from the sounds of things your just working on 2nd hand knowledge of what he "might" be doing.
XD you're "angry" that a piece of trash left you? for another piece of trash?
are your standards so fucking low? and dumb?
tell the boyfriend, because he and the kids deserve better. find yourself even half a standard and realise your ex is garbage.
I can see that you are hurting and in the moment it would feel good and get one back on him, but in the long run it won't help you.. But... Maybe if you could anonymous let the information out... Just to maybe help the boyfriend out, it wouldn't hurt either..
Just forget about that dirt bag and move on with your life. How much more time and effort are you going to waste on this guy just to get revenge? You're just creating more drama for yourself. Be done with it already.
Don't be fucking stupider than you are. You and he are idiots that need to move on from your mistakes.
Best revenge is moving on with your life and leaving others to their ridiculous drama.
Is it worth it?
Destroying his life and hurting the woman, her family, the kids etc.
I suggest moving on and let him continue to dig his own hole.
What exactly are you trying to achieve with this revenge? I think this is just a waste of time. Move on life itself will teach him a lesson.
Just find another guy and don't bother with those who aren't worth your time like this one.
Leave it alone - He's your EX, move on and forget about him. The other guy will twig eventually, and its for the best if you are not in the splatter zone of the resulting shitfest.
Lol.. you need help! Seek help first before you do something you will pay for. What he did is inexcusable, but he will ultimately get his… it doesn’t have to be by your hand. And it won’t help you feel better.
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