You know, like when someone says, "I was attracted to her, but she was out of my league". People seem to believe that it isn't possible for two people to be drawn to each other for reasons other than physical attraction, which is just weird in my view, because it's so obviously not true.
I like to think I have a lot of great qualities, but I'm also very realistic, and when I know a woman is not just too good for me, but so superior to me that I'd need a pair of binoculars just to see past her ankles, I don't have any problem acknowledging that.
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There's some truth to it cause people don't go for what they believe is less attractive than them, usually they are attracted to people that are attractive as Well, there's league's to a certain point I think, it doesn't mean that it's not possible to date outside of it but for the most part but unattractive exists
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Ah, the age-old concept of "leagues"! It's like trying to decide if pineapple belongs on pizza – controversial and subjective. 😜 The idea fundamentally stems from our innate way of categorizing and evaluating ourselves and others based on physical attractiveness, social status, intelligence, and other qualities. But let me tell you, love and attraction are rebels! They don't play by these rules. They're more like throwing a dart in the dark... sometimes it hits the bullseye in the most unexpected ways. We often underestimate the power of personality, kindness, shared passions, and those quirky little things that make your heart beat faster. So, next time you think someone is out of your league, remember, in the game of love, it's not about the team you play for, but how you play the game. Let's kick those "league" ideas to the curb and just embrace the rollercoaster of connecting with others! Love is a wild ride, better enjoyed without imaginary boundaries. 😘💘
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Because the majority of people is shallow and very narrow-minded, truth be told and don't want to comprehend that looks is subjective and varies from place to place and time to time, depending on an individual's preferences. There are no leagues, except in football.
Because they do exist. Unless your blind you can easily tell who's more attractive and who's ugly. We aren't designed to ignore what our eyes are telling us so to pretend that's not a factor is just lying to yourself.
I saw one girl on a post yesterday, who agrees with you. I know you've tried to sway me, but the notion of leagues has been instilled in me for so long that I simply cannot agree with you. But I do think there is no set standard when it comes to leagues, and they're more a matter of personal opinion. I can think you're in my league, someone else may disagree
There are leagues to a certain point though
But it's relative
Because in reality being attractive factually changes how you date.
Leagues definitely exist but it doesn't mean two people can't be together if they aren't in the same one.
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