Girls, Am I more than a best friend but less than a boyfriend? ?

[Anonymous]

Before having a boyfriend she filtered with me a lot, and calls me the same dude, we didn't have a relationship because of the distance, now that she has a boyfriend, she still calls me dude, when I try to filter with her I notice that she also does it she, and many times he sends me a "😘 " or a "❤ " and more, so im in friend zone? many times he also sends me photos of her or videos, when I send him videos of me he says that he really likes my laugh

[SueShe]

When you talk about "filtered", do you actually mean "flirted"?

I have never heard about the expression "filter" when talking about a relationship. Perhaps I do not know all those expressions since I don't flirt/filter.

You are not a boyfriend since she seems to already have one of them. Unless she is the type of person that has multiple boyfriends, you have probably been placed in this infamous friendzone that everyone talks about. She keeps you warm just in case...

Now, calling someone "dude" does not really mean anything. To me, dude is simply another word for "person".

I believe you do overthink the entire issue. You are simply a long distance friend in her eyes.

[Asker]

Yea, sorry i wrote it wrong

[Nikki1989]

Stop overthinking the situation and you will see things more clearly.

[Asker]

But it's hard when this happens unfortunately

[laly520]

forget about her

waste of time

she is taken

[Asker]

But I don't want this, and she also helped me a lot

[laly520]

its waste of time fr