I've just read this poster's story and updates:
Her poor boyfriend literally walked in on her with her cheating with two people; a woman and his best mate from childhood. In complete distress, he collapsed on the ground and had a stroke. In her updates, upon recovering, he doesn't remember why he was admitted to the hospital nor what happened. He only remembers up to before the party, that he has a loving girlfriend, was working and wakes up in the hospital. He asked her what happened and the woman in the story withheld the information from him (lying once again), likely in hopes that he doesn't ever remembers.
Is that just another deeper level of being a selfish cheater? It's already bad enough she got caught in the act but once the boyfriend lost his memory of that event (amnesia), she continues lying to him. Would you say that's one of the most cruel cheaters ever?
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I don't women who cheat, get pregnant with another man's baby and tell their partner it's his kid are the worst.
That's why I said one of the most cruel cheater ever but not the most cruel of all. The woman that get pregnant and fool their boyfriend or husbands into raising another man's child (paternity fraud) definitely take the prize for sure. For sure they are worse than the woman in the story.
But seriously on a 1-10 scale what level of cruelty would you give to that woman I've mentioned?
Oh God yeah, that shit is the worst
For sure. It’s genuinely sickening to know people like her exist
yeah she really disgusted me. She's the type that makes it harder for the rest of us to find a man that wants marriage. If she really was remorseful as she claims in her update and wanted to do the decent thing then telling the doctors and the man's parents the truth would've been a good start. With her boyfriend losing his memory, when he asked her what happened, that would've been her chance to come clean and then leave the decision up to her boyfriend of whether he can forgive or not.
If she had done all that, then maybe, just maybe the people that replied to her would've been less harsher on her posts.
You would think that a person would feel guilty lying and hiding the truth from somebody. I’ve hidden far less serious things from people before and it weighs heavily on my conscience
At least you have conscience. That woman will continue lying until her boyfriend regains back his memory, then once the again the begging, pleading for a 2nd chance process begins, only wanting to fix things when caught, lol.
Damn that's crazy
I know. She makes the rest of us look bad. Women like her are the reason nowadays several men don't want commitment anymore. I never cheated and it sucks we have to pay the price of rotten apples. She makes no sense in her posts whenever she claims to be remorseful. If she was, then she would've told the doctors, his parents and him the truth when he asked her what happened. That was her chance to come clean, to stop being selfish if she supposedly wanted to be a better person but it's all about herself and what she wants.
If she had done all that and the man still wanted the relationship to continue (personally I'm not into forgiving a cheater but some people were able to rebuild trust), then perhaps it would be believable she was remorseful. She has done nothing to prove that.
I agree but men have to understand all women aren't the same
yeah true. They need to stop overgeneralizing us.
Exactly