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Is it ok to beat up your boyfriend if he deserved it? (Page 2)
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I can understand why you did it but it doesn't make it right. You lost your temper and that's not good. He could press charges against you and that would ruin your chances of being on the police force. You need to control your temper or its going to get you in lots of trouble
He didn't deserve it and its not understandable hiting someone because they said somthing to get u angry shows a lack of control on your half the only reason this is entertained is because people tend to excuse violence from women
It was becouse if cheating not becouse he said something to me...
Beating up your partner for cheating don't make it better its still hella abusive and somthing u could be arrested for again if we was talking about a guy who punched up his girl for cheating it would be a no brainer that its not OK
Yeah you're right i need to learn to stay calm...
It is disturbing that 37% of people find domestic violence acceptable when a woman perpetrates it on a man. It would be completely unacceptable if the genders were reversed and we all know it. Did he do wrong? 100% definitely should have just left. Laying your hands on another person is never okay unless you are defending yourself. You shouldn't be laying your hands on anyone, especially just because you are (justifiably) angry.
They find it understandable not acceptable thats a big difference. I know its bad what i did but im trying to find out if people Can understand WHY i did it. You didn't understand the question
No I understood your question. And my answer is no. It isn't understandable to me. You had many different options. It is never Understandable to me to lay your hands on someone, especially someone you claim to love.
And when if comes to violence against your partner. Understandable and acceptable are a lot closer together than people think. Because when people find something Understandable they can tend to rationalize it and justify it more easily. As the saying goes. The worst cruelties are done by those who believed they were right. Call it a fallacy if you want, I wager though every single person who justified and found if acceptable, also understood why you did it.
And to be honest, at its core? Everyone understands WHY you did it. There is no question there. You were justifiably mad. Hurt, betrayed. Again. We all understand why you did it. That's kind of a pointless question. So either your asking if we understand why you did it. Or are looking for some relief for doing it by asking if it was "understandable" when you mean "justified in it" I have no doubt you know it was wrong, but I do think you are trying to find a way to rationalize it more in your head. If I am way off course than I apologize. But that is how it reads to me.
Not only were you more than justified in teaching your recalcitrant lothario a much needed lesson, I'm so impressed with your creativity in addressing this matter that I feel compelled to inquire as to the possibility of meeting you someday â¤ď¸
I absolutely hate cheaters. That said. Would your sensei be proud that after all your training, this is what transpired?
But I think you already knew the answer here.
He woudnt...
Then I'm sure you will do better in the future to restore honor to you both.
No that is NOT ok you should never abuse anyone how would you like it if somebody hit you and beat you up? I bet you wouldnât like it
Ofcourse not but i would understand it if i cheated somebody.. m
No you donât not hit anyone regardless of the situation đ¤Śââď¸
It shouldnât be. Break up with him, tell him what he did was wrong but the last thing you want to do is lose your cool and use physical violence. What he did was bad but hurting him isnât going to help make things better for you or him.
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If he was already your ex when this happened, you're a jerk.
If this happened while you were together, then its overboard but justified.
Him seeing other women is only your business and cheating if you were a couple at the time.
Yes we were a couple at the time đ
Then its justified, cheaters are shitbags.
They are for sure đ
Of course it's not ok. You train martial arts. The first thing they should teach you is not to use it on other people unless you're defending yourself. It's domestic violence.
It is understandable and ok if it is understandable and ok for a man to do that when confronted with female infidelity.
Do you agree to the later?
Violence is never an answer. It only makes things worse. Just leave and take time to heal.
Yeah i just snapped in the moment... I know its not right but is it understandable from your point of view?
Yes, I understand when we are angry we tend to lose our mind.
Yeah thats me...
I mean he is an asshole for what he did. I will say once he pushes you I think what followed was okay. He got physical with you so you have your right to retaliate. Glad you moved on from him. And on another note⌠nice BUTT
I canât believe any guy would go behind your back when you have a butt like that â¤ď¸â¤ď¸
Well he did... After he got with me he thought he Can have any girl... And by the way i pushed him first so I don't know if its fully justifyable but thank you đ
Why would he want any girl if he had you. Craziness. Doesnât matter. Once he pushes you back itâs game on. He should have never done that.
Well he surprised me i didn't think he would dare to attack with his physique đ đ
Haha are you saying he wasnât quite built like me?
Still wait for you⌠đ
Not unless he was beating up you first, which he wasn't.
No he wasn't i was just furious becouse of cheating...
You break up with him and block him instead.
No. Violence is almost always never the answer. Even more so if you can handle yourself and others. Need to have better willpower and just walk away. Meet better men that are more compatible.
If this is supposed to be a serious question, why does it have a picture of a girl showing off her over-sized ass?
The correct response would have been to cheat yourself, give him a taste of his own medicine.
Leave dating to the adults. You kids need to grow the fuck up.
I don't know whats childish about this but ok đ
Your (ex) boyfriend treating you like garbage and you not leaving him.
Violence has no place in relationships.
I understand you. I cheated my ex once and she was mad too. She fid beat me abd even kicked my nuts several times
Im surprised you defend it when you experienced it... Anyway why did you cheat on her if you know its bad and you deserved beating for that?
Because she was right and im cheated her. I was horny all the time so i deserved it. She destroyed my balls though
Is... is this a joke? lol
no its NO ok. i guess maybe you thought you'd get a pass cause you're a girl or something? thats not an excuse.