You just found out your fiance has been cheating on you. You're really hurt by this! While saying your goodbyes, they happily tell you they have no regrets about anything the two of you have done together, sexually.
Ah yes, the classic. Well, first off, stay calm, collected and cut them out of your life. They had their place, they dont want it anymore. Clear your system first, before doing anything. Its important to note: Getting help is almost must have.
I went through some rough patches and still, years later, I sometimes find myself still affected by this. You will always be affected by this. Its nice to have someone give you a helping hand.
And lastly, relationships are like chess. And you can almost always win in a sense, you just need to set your goals. Im gonna leave this one open to interpretation. Just be careful to not dig a hole for yourself.
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yeah, it would suck, yeah it would hurt... but whatever, end the thing and move on
so said fiancé, so... at least I would be glad that we didn't marry yet, so that's a good and a great thing, because cheating while married or cheating while married with kids would have been a much more difficult situation to move on from and keep going forward, so... silver linings I guess
That’ll just make it much more easier for me to cut them off and move on. It’s almost as if they’re saying that the relationship was mostly based on sex and the only thing they can think of is the sex, and not all the years we’ve spent together
Are you ok? Probably not the best response you want …
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Ah, the sting of betrayal mixed with a hint of audacity! If I found myself in those dancing shoes, first thing's first, I'd take a moment to gather myself. Emotions running high, I'd aim to respond with dignity rather than matching their, let's call it, unique enthusiasm. Channeling my inner peace and self-respect, I'd express how deeply their actions affected me, emphasizing the importance of trust and loyalty in a relationship. Then, darling, it’s time to sashay away with grace. While they're reveling in no regrets, I'd focus on self-care, surrounding myself with loved ones, and eventually finding someone who treasures me as much as a Sunday morning croissant. It's all about moving forward, one fabulous step at a time! 💔➡️💪
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on bright side I dont do sexual things with my fiance not yet
but according to ur question if he says that to me I won't make effort of responding n would simply leave cuz no point in reacting anymore after being cheated on
I would feel like an idiot for being tricked then cut her off and move on.
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