Is it normal to feel something for someone one day and then feel almost nothing for them the next?

[I_Do_Mind]

One day I am planning a life with them in my head and then the next I could careless if they wanted to be with me or not. I think it is because at first I was hyped up. But after reflection I realized that the feelings were not mutual, and when I took time to cool down and think everything through I realized I was being obsessive and quickly checked myself.

No, if you really cared your feelings should not be over with so quickly.

Yes, it was a quick flare that went out.

[Nexovous]

My example may he off point though I want to see if it's well received.
One night I went out in average attire per say and I ended up coming across a girl I fell head over heals for almost instantly when I saw her bubbly personality and gorgeous looks. I made an attempt to engage a conversation with her and she went instantly preppy and shoved my ass to the way side. I took it and walked to say the least. I still loved what I saw of her prior though the next day I had work and I was wearing businesses attire and I rode my motorcycle to work because it was my only form of transportation. So that said I stopped at a coffee shop nearby and ran into her at which point she became the bubbly girl with the dazzling smile and gorgeous look I loved prior. This time I had nothing but disgust on my face and didn't give two shits for what she was playing at. (Btw, taking a coffee to go while riding a motorcycle is damn near impossible and a pain in the ass. I don't suggest trying it.)

[JSmith925]

No, it is not normal unless something has happened to trigger the change.
~JSmith

[I_Do_Mind]

I guess the realization that the scale was not even, my love for him was beyond the norm while his was way below for me.

[JSmith925]

I can understand that. Being in love alone is not much fun. So, many young people think they will "make" that person love them. But that person may not even be capable of love on the same scale as you. Unless there was some reason he was holding back, you made the right move.
~JSmith

[I_Do_Mind]

Thanks for saying so.

[Jadde]

Nah it's normal

Love isn't a constant feeling
When the honeymoon period dies down it's normal to get these feelings
That's when most people leave or decide to stay with them

It's normal for relationships to feel like it's your best friend but no romantic feelings sometimes.

How are you when your with him?

[I_Do_Mind]

I am happy when I am with him, but I feel like the feeling between us is not completely mutual, like I am the obsessive one but he only feels very little about the relationship.

[Jadde]

I can relate so hard to this

Do you think you would get more loving feelings if you knew he felt more towards You?

Often with my boyfriend if he's being distant or not into me, I don't get loving thoughts (maybe scared of being hurt). However when he's lovey with me I feel in love

Do you get me? X

[Eskandra]

That's mean you like this person but you don't love him

[I_Do_Mind]

I would have loved him if the feelings were mutual. I had deep feelings for him but he would not except them.

[Eskandra]

Maybe the cause of that sometime you feel like you don't have any feelings

[Eskandra]

It does happen to me

[Eskandra]

With the most guy I like in this works

[Eskandra]

World *

[I_Do_Mind]

Yeah, you understand, this is perhaps exactly the case.

[Eskandra]

Yh yh

[jimmijo1954]

You are like many people who react and behave spontaneously and there’s nothing wrong with that it is perfectly normal

[thinker_]

it happens

when i am really working, i dnt care

but i can avoid her completely too but when i can't i can't

[1stranger]

Hey, how are you the person who doesn't want to know me😑

[Premihoo]

Yes it happens when there is lust but yes when there is love then it shouldn't be happen

[omgjassy]

Yes.

[cupidkisses]

it's normal