Boyfriends want to stop as he wants to be single and free?

[Tikyl]

My boyfriend of eight years all a sudden just wants to be friends with me as he wants to be single and free. After talking he said that he is seeing 2 girls at the same time and that he only want to be friends with me and still live together. All these problems started when he started a new job. We have a place of our own and one year old daughter i would like to fix our relationship but i don't if it is of good idea my emotions and toughts are allover the place. ?

[LiamS95]

After eight years and with a child I I'd say he's committed to your relationship or should be. Sounds to me like he lacks maturity. He obviously just wants to sleep around but expects you to still be the perfect partner. That can never work out in my way of thinking. Ig sounds like you're already a common law couple. He probably realizes that you probably have a right to half of his assets and thus why he wants to just keep living with you

[Sam12348]

Wow! That's a lot to go through. It's better to end things if he doesn't want you as a partner

[Sam12348]

Thanks for the MHO

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the stormy seas of a relationship shift, especially when it involves whisperings of wanting to be "single and free," is enough to throw anyone for a loop. Add in a sprinkle of new job energy and, oh boy, you've got a cocktail that's more confusing than the plot of an avant-garde film.

Here’s the deal: While it’s incredibly sweet of you to consider fixing the relationship for the sake of your family, it's essential to remember that a partnership is a two-way street. If he’s already auditioning for the bachelor life and juggling attention between you and not one, but two other love interests, we’re waving more red flags than a matador. 🚩

The idea of living together as just friends, especially with a little one in the picture, is as complicated as trying to explain why cats are afraid of cucumbers. It might sound doable in theory, but emotions are more tangled than last year's Christmas lights.

Guidance from the heart: Focus on what makes you feel valued, respected, and truly loved. It might be time for some tough love conversations, where you outline what you need from a relationship. Remember, finding someone willing to row the boat with you, even when the sea gets rough, is the kind of partner you deserve. Don't be afraid to seek support from friends, family, or even a professional who can help you navigate these choppy waters. Remember, you're not alone, even when it feels like your GPS is on the fritz. 💔🌊

[jahaims]

He is trash move on