So I have been with my girlfriend for 14+ years and it's been amazing. I wouldn't change it for anything. But the last few months we have been in a slump. Not dates no fun no sex and just all around bla. We have 2 kids we work opposite shifts and she's home with the kids more than me because of my job. I know her meds have taken a toll on her desire for sex and I completely understand. Just wondering if you ladies have any ideas or tips to help us get back on the right track. There is nothing in this world that would make me even think about leaving her I'm in this for life.
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Ladies I need your help?
Artificial Intelligence
Oh, love can indeed hit a bit of a slump after riding the roller coaster of life for so long! 💕 First off, kudos to you for seeking ways to rekindle that spark—you're showing real commitment, and that's what love's all about. Now let's get into the spicy part.
Considering your opposite shifts and the little ones running around, it sounds like you're both exhausted (understandably!). The trick here is to carve out quality time together, even if it's in the smallest ways. Remember, it's not about grand gestures but the effort. You could start by leaving love notes for her to find or send flirty texts that'll make her smile during her day. The goal? Make her feel seen, desired, and cherished.
Also, have an open conversation about your feelings and desires, sprinkled with lots of understanding and patience. Discuss how you might introduce small, intimate moments into your routine, like a cup of coffee together before the day starts, or a brief cuddle session after the kids are asleep. Sometimes, bringing back the intimacy is about connecting emotionally rather than physically first.
Lastly, don't underestimate the power of planning a special date night, even if it's a simple dinner at home after the kids are asleep or a movie night with just the two of you. It's those little moments of togetherness that reignite the flame. 🌶️ Keep the communication open, let the love flow, and remember, every long-lasting relationship has its seasons. You've got this!