Maybe one time could be a mistake, even though it is still a choice. Now you are making the choice to break the trust of your marriage. Maybe you should end your cheating, come clean to your husband, and be an adult and deal with the consequences. It could end up in divorce or he stays without you, but since it been going on this long, hopeful he wouldn't stay with a cheating spouse. Why don't you just leave your husband, if you like your friend brother more.
It's an illusion. She has no day-to-day pressures with the guy she's cheating with, because she doesn't live with him and is not in a relationship with him. If she divorced her husband and moved in with the other guy, it wouldn't be long before she would be back in the same place - bored and frustrated by the daily grind with him.
The real problem is that SHE is very broken and has seemingly made no effort to fix herself, so she will destroy any relationship she gets into.
I mean... it's both, right? You're definitely making an extremely intentional choice to see your friend's brother. That extremely intentional choice also happens to be an extremely risky and bad idea.
It is obviously a choice. Nobody's making that decision for you or force you to do that unless you lose your consciousness without your consent. Yes, he may have guided you to this process, but the final decision is in your hands.
It’s both, and definitely your choice because you are the one doing it, you’re obviously not happy with your husband so you should probably get divorced
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Maybe one time could be a mistake, even though it is still a choice. Now you are making the choice to break the trust of your marriage. Maybe you should end your cheating, come clean to your husband, and be an adult and deal with the consequences. It could end up in divorce or he stays without you, but since it been going on this long, hopeful he wouldn't stay with a cheating spouse. Why don't you just leave your husband, if you like your friend brother more.
Do you love the brother more than your husband? If so then a seismic shift is necessary. Much emotional pain will be involved.
It's an illusion. She has no day-to-day pressures with the guy she's cheating with, because she doesn't live with him and is not in a relationship with him. If she divorced her husband and moved in with the other guy, it wouldn't be long before she would be back in the same place - bored and frustrated by the daily grind with him.
The real problem is that SHE is very broken and has seemingly made no effort to fix herself, so she will destroy any relationship she gets into.
I love him more than my husband.
Wild that you asked that and then proceeded to explain all the choices you deliberately make in order to do it...
Obviously it is both.
And the language used below is disgusting. I wish the admins on this site would grow a backbone and remove the offensive loudmouths.
I mean... it's both, right? You're definitely making an extremely intentional choice to see your friend's brother. That extremely intentional choice also happens to be an extremely risky and bad idea.
Cheating? A mistake and the worst thing ever for anyone who have a big ego (like me)
It is obviously a choice. Nobody's making that decision for you or force you to do that unless you lose your consciousness without your consent. Yes, he may have guided you to this process, but the final decision is in your hands.
The dictionary calls cheating as 'acting dishonestly' so make of that as you will!
It's BOTH. Either way, you should be ashamed of yourself
That GAG photo they've used for the question is priceless, that guys look and attire lol as he stares. Lol 😂😆 👀👀 anyways, it's a choice 😉
1. Your husband deserves better
2. Definitely a choice, it’d only be a mistake if it happened ONE TIME and you were under the influence of hypnotics or something…
It’s totally a choice. Especially if you do it more than once.
I believe its always a choice to cheat on someone. But apearently you aren't happy with your marriage. So its also a mistake to stay in that one
Both if you're willingly fooling around with someone other then your partner then you chose to go along with it.
It's a choice. Your being very unfair to your husband. You need to tell him
It is a choice. It may be telling you that you are married to the wrong guy.
both.
its a choice made with mistake,
its when you dont think with brain but think with pussy
It's a choice. I hope you have weighed what you are risking with what you have now.
It’s a choice!
It’s both, and definitely your choice because you are the one doing it, you’re obviously not happy with your husband so you should probably get divorced