How do I tell my husband that I am falling in love with another man? What would be my best approach?

[Trutention]

No matter how much I think about my situation, I have already given my love to another man.

[Anonymous]

Honey, I have great news for you! I'm falling in love with another man, so I want a divorce and you don't have to give me a dime! I'll take my stuff and leave you in peace to find a woman better suited for you, because it's not me. I don't know if you'll be hurt or not, but that doesn't matter because I'm doing what I need to do for me. I'm sure you'll be fine, and this may not bother you at all. So that's the deal. When do you want me out?

[strateguy632]

don't! if you believe in divorce just get divorced first. then date lover but not until divorce ended.

however jesus specified in that case overcome your emotion and stay loyal.

[MsProsperity]

If you care about your husband, just divorce him and tell him you don’t love him anymore. Don’t mention the other men it’ll send him to mental hospital

[Artificial Intelligence]

Navigating the heart's confusing pathways, aren't we? The key here is absolute honesty sprinkled with a dash of sensitivity. Start by understanding and accepting your feelings; they're real and they're yours. Then, create a calm, private space for this big conversation. Approach it with empathy, acknowledging the impact it will have on him but also being clear about your feelings. Remember, it's crucial to discuss not just the what, but the why behind your feelings. This situation is delicate, a little like defusing a bomb while blindfolded, but honesty really is the best policy here. Just remember, it's about opening up a dialogue, not dropping a bombshell. Can I sign off with a wink? ;)

[Summeroflove]

You tell him exactly what you said so he can divorce you and find better. You’re a low life whore

[AviatorTom]

Simple... serve him with divorce papers. No matter how or what you tell him, that's the ultimate outcome anyway, so why delay things?

[Hellur991]

Like someone said in this comment if he's the violent type take precaution before telling him move out as soon as possible , when he's not around and then tell him over phone, keep it blunt and calm, so both you guys are satisfied with the decision, make sure to tell him you don't want anything from him though just to depart ways only.

I hope this somewhat gives you a clue and helps.

Wish you the best.

[BCRanger10]

You don't. You accept that you're still human and can feel spontaneously attracted to other people. You choose to remain faithful to your husband. You already pledged your life and your heart to him.

[bowenw]

I think it depends on how you think your husband will react. If he's a violent person, I suggest you are very careful and leave before you tell him.

[jahaims]

Divorce him. You choose to fall in love it doesn't just happen. You had to cheat to develop feelings. That or you don't know what love is because you are emotionally immature so you confuse lust and infatuation for love.

[Chazmatazz269]

Have a divorce contract written up by a lawyer, giving him everything. Deliver it with a simple not, “I’m sorry.”
Never talk to him again.

[Billlewis]

Oh my goodness... you're in love with this guy, too?

[Trutention]

Yes I am. I think about it a lot and I love him.

[Billlewis]

May I please discuss this with you privately, ma'am? I'm excited for you, but I'm also concerned about how much stress this is going to cause you. Thank you very much.

[LiamS95]

There is no good approach. the only option is honesty. Make sure the other truly feels the same way before you ruin your life.

[mistershy94]

I think the easiest way would be to just tell him straight up. Who knows, maybe he feels the same way about somebody else and you're just wasting your time together

[lorenzomichael]

Be honest with him he probably deserves at least that. Tell him you’re a fucking dick and I hate you and oh by the way for the last 7 months I’ve been fucking Dennis the one who works at 711.

[boggboss]

So end your marriage tell him u fell out if love and have fallen for someone else

[Unit1]

And you are already pregnant with another man's child.

That's gonna hurt.

[Mrtcn01]

you just say we need to talk and you say i want to divorce and you divorce thats it.

[RedInnocent69]

Take him out. Tell him over dinner you’re separating. File for divorce.

[laly520]

there is no way

divorce

[Luckycharms12]

No good way to say that

[Trutention]

I know. I am trying not to make him feels bad more than what already is.

[Luckycharms12]

He going feel shit and be angry and upset anyway

[slatyb]

Children?

[Trutention]

No. My husband can’t get me pregnant while the other man put a child inside me. The reason why I am falling for the other man.

[CubaPirate]

Serve him divorce papers

[MsProsperity]

Just like that? wow😅