Is it a maturity thing if a women breaks up with you cause your a good guy?

[Anonymous]

Like I can read between the lines it’s not really because your a good guy it’s based in the fact that because your good your boring you don’t engage in reckless or risky behaviors

[Anonymous]

A lot of men don't understand that you can be a good guy without being everything else that repels women; weak, timid and a pushover.

[Asker]

So does being weak mean you won’t fight her cause she would hit me and try to bait me into hitting her back she also would get in my face trying to get me to hit her. I never did I stood my ground but I did not put my hands on her

[Opinion Owner]

You're a good guy for not hitting her back and smart cause she could get you in trouble. However, you're weak if you stayed with her for any amount of time after the first time she hit you.