Look man, meeting up alone with a married woman is just asking for trouble, no matter what your intentions are. I know you have history with her and it's nice to reconnect as friends, but going down that path is disrespectful to her husband and marriage. Some things to think about:
- Her husband most likely wouldn't be comfortable with her hanging out one-on-one with another guy, even as "just friends."
- Emotions could easily get mixed up again if you're together privately without clear boundaries set.
- Gossip or rumors could start just from the appearance of things, even if nothing happens.
- Is keeping in touch through occasional friendly texts or group hangs really so bad? That protects everyone.
I'd say keep conversations casual via text for now, and if you do end up hanging in person, make sure it's always in a group setting out of respect for her commitment. Don't put her or yourself in a compromising situation. Friendship is great, but don't let feelings get rekindled or temptations arise. Some lines are better left untouched, you know?
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If that’s something that you’re worried about, then don’t go through with it. If your intentions were truly innocent and you weren’t wanting anything more than platonic with her, then that concern wouldn’t even be on your mind.
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