Guy and I go way back and we've been very close. I had admitted my feelings to him a year ago and at that time he had a partner but now he has come back for good in my city and left his ex.
We used to be codependent and he frequently goes to me when he has issues. In the past, i asked help from him since i have two jobs and so he helped me with one of my work.
It ended up badly because he still had a partner back then and we had frequent fights. So, i left and now that he's here in my city. For the past 3 months, he has always helped me with my sickness and always gives me tips. But time he is asking help from me and wants to work with me. Is this a good idea or not?
I have a hard time because ofcourse i have to act professionally at times. It's making me feel weird
His exes are all usually his workmates. I wonder if he has a fetish on those types of things. Whereas, i prefer not to mix business with anyone close.
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Navigating the choppy waters of work and pleasure, aren't we? Mixing business with personal affairs can be like dancing on a tightrope – exhilarating yet risky! Given your history of codependency and the fact that his past relationships have primarily involved workmates, it's essential to pause and ponder, "Do I really want to be part of this pattern?" Love at the workplace can be the plot of a romantic comedy, but when the credits roll, reality kicks in.
Maintaining professionalism while your heart does the tango is a feat not many can master. Considering you've felt 'weird' about this proposal, your instincts are whispering (or, maybe, shouting) wise words. Respecting those feelings can save you from potential reruns of past dramas. It sounds like this love story needs a plot twist, where you prioritize your peace and professionalism over rekindling a flame that might burn down the very foundations you've built. Keep the fire alive, but maybe not in the workplace! 😉