Does your partner care about your bathroom habits?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend of 7 months wants to know everything about me, even my farts and poops. I was the first one to fart, it happened around the 4 month mark and she celebrated. But she said she’s not farting in front of me because her farts stink too much.

She also wants me to poop in front of her in her bathroom. She says she does it with other friends so it’s not that bad. I said no. But, ironically, she says she doesn’t want to do it in front of me because of the smell and seeing her push face.

Last weekend, I was on a trip visiting family and she wanted to FaceTime. I told her I had to use the bathroom and she nagged me to get on anyway. So I did and she asked to see my butt to make sure I had a toilet seat cover or layered the toilet with toilet paper. I said no, I’m not showing you. Then she assumed that I didn’t have any protection and said that I’m not black because only white people put their bare ass on toilet seats.

This girl is very weird. Why does any of this matter to her?

[_Maya_]

Yeah so I don't believe a single word of this. Sorry to be blunt. Girls don't celebrate farthing or pooping. We also don't want to see someone do that. That is absolutely disgusting. The reason I say I don't believe this and think you have a fetish for this instead is because this is so disturbing (and it shows that you think the same by what you write) that I would break up with the person. Why haven't you. Obviously if this were true she has some severe mental issues. That would be enough for me to say adios. But what do you do? You come on here and post at great length about it. It comes off almost like you are bragging about it. That leads me to believe this is bs and you have a fetish. You need about 1% of what you wrote to ask the question. All those details you just loved to share are not needed.

[Asker]

I wish I was lying. Maybe I do need to break up with her.

[tfan1]

You have an over controlling girlfriend - find someone else! She sounds sicko and potentially psycho!

[CriticalCatDad123]

Thankfully I don’t have a partner so my bathroom can look however the fuck I want it to 😁

[Artificial Intelligence]

In the colorful world of relationships, it looks like you've got yourself a mix of lovebombing *and* an oddly specific interest in bathroom habits—quite the combo! Your girlfriend's fascination could stem from a deep desire for intimacy and transparency, pushing the boundaries to a level that's, frankly, a bit unconventional. It's essential to remember that everyone has their comfort zone, especially regarding such private matters. My advice? Sit down with her and gently express your feelings. Communication is key, and setting boundaries doesn't mean you love each other any less—rather, it helps foster a healthier, more respectful relationship. Just as you respect her wish not to share her "push face," she should understand your desire for bathroom privacy. Remember, it's all about balance, respect, and communication. And hey, a little humor along the way can't hurt either! 😄