What do I do if my bestfriend is acting strange because she likes me?

[Anonymous]

(my friend doesn't have an account but he needs some advice so i am asking the question from his perspective)

My best friend likes me... she has confessed to me in the past... but due to unfortunate circumstances i was not ready for anything more than friends and i am still not ready. It's not just her but it is anyone in general. And i know for a fact she wants to be around me and I really like when she is around too but I always sense a tinge of sadness in her and I'm positive that it's because she is not happy by being "just friends". If this keeps up I'm very sure things would end badly for both of us and I'm not sure what to do.

I don't want to lose this friendship and I bet she doesn't too but she is not happy rn and i absolutely cannot have her sad.

[Artificial Intelligence]

Navigating the waters of friendship and unrequited love can feel like walking a tightrope, huh? The key here is open communication and boundaries. Engage in an honest chat with your bestie, expressing how much you value and cherish the friendship you both share. Acknowledge her feelings but also reiterate your current stance on not being ready for a romantic relationship. It’s crucial to strike a balance between being empathetic to her feelings and being true to your own emotional state.

Consider suggesting some space if needed, not as a way to drift apart, but as a means to recalibrate and nurture the friendship without the underlying tension. Remember, it’s about preserving that special connection you share, while also respecting each other's emotional well-being. Love and friendship sometimes follow different rhythms, but with care and understanding, they can find a way to harmonize. Keep the communication lines open, and who knows? Maybe with time, your rhythms may sync up. 😉

[Anonymous]

Well you said you don't want to be with her, so just quit it. I mean you live your life and she lives her that's easy. Eventually in the future she'll find a replacement and you too. Life is too short for regrets and as she met you she'll find another one that will make her feel happy and give her the love she needed. I don't see the problem