What role makes a woman happier, "housewife" or "working wife"?

[TonyMetal___86]

If you can describe why?

Housewife

Working wife

A total of 25 votes were cast: 10 girls and 15 guys. See detailed results

[DishLady]

I ended up with a combo that made me happy… I think in today’s economy it’s hard to be only one or the other bc a couple is a team and has to face a lot of challenges and hardships in addition to building a nice home together. But personally… I know it takes two to build a home — and the taller more mechanical one of us would have to pitch in rather a lot on some days… which means I’d also contribute to income and such. I’m marriage particularly, I don’t think anything should be 100% the burden of one or the other person to provide.

[TonyMetal___86]

It's not a burden when a husband raises and takes care of his wife, she does her role at home and he does his outside...

If the husband is capable on his own than it will perfectly work!

A housewife's role at home are like many incomes which aren't needed 😄

It depends on how the couple see things and what they agree on, i mean some women chose a part time job so their main focus remains at home but i personally prefer the full time housewife 😌

The word burden made me laugh cause in a real marriage, god makes a husband and his wife as one, when i provide for my wife, it means i'm providing for myself and when i feed her it means i'm feeding myself, it's my responsibility to take care of her and assures that she's eating and drinking and feeling happy, same way she does for me but in a different way!

[DishLady]

I still think it depends on circumstances… I had a very dear friend who lost her hubbie (35yo healthy guy) just before Christmas bc he was overworked and over stressed “strong and silent” type… he went out to plow the snow off their driveway, came back into the house, sat in his favorite chair and closed his eyes…. That’s how she found him…. It crushed her. He was her life… her whole life.

Anyway, I was still an impressionable young thing at the time and vowed to do my part if I ever got married… thinking of it more as two oxen pulling a plow side by side rather than the whole yolk being on one oxen’s shoulders. I’d rather have my love with me for longer than to wear him out with daily burdens.

[TonyMetal___86]

Miss dish, such things occurs in life, no one knows when the time comes, only god knows this but whike we are alive we must do what must be done!

If he didn't do the plow by himself than he had to do something else in the house, so it's the same, it's not like he's going to get a hand from his wife with the snow plow but won't offer a hand at home, so basically it's the same, i mean a wife can help her husband with his duties anytimes she wants and the husband can help his wife in her duties anytime he wants but in the end each has his/her own role...

You want to live together for a long time till death, than focus on these: eating healthy, keep yourselves active, love each other and ease things on each other, make each other happy, make regular medical check ups and the rest is on god...

[DishLady]

True enough!

[TonyMetal___86]

😊👍🏻

[bobalife]

It’s not black and white. It just depends on the woman on what she wants to do. But I think more woman is happier as a working wife in my opinion. Most women who are just house wife tends to feel like they’re losing their identity since they feel like that’s their main & only role.

[TonyMetal___86]

Thanks for sharing, it's a matter of choice but personally i prefer the girl who adores becoming a housewife and will be thankful for having this role!

Any girl can be a working woman but not every girl can be a devoted loving a housewife!

Also it depends if the husband is able to raise his wife and family on his own...

Sometimes a woman might choose a part time job and it's not bad but working full time is a no no for me!

[bobalife]

It’s interesting because I hear different complaints of a man not being happy of a woman not working enough… or not being a good supportive partner at home… I’m not sure what’s a higher percentage of men being unhappy with a woman’s role as a partner.

Why do you want her to have a part time job and not a full time job?

A lot of times these days, a husband isn’t always capable to help support both the wife and kids. And so, it’s common to have a working wife to help financially and raised the family as well.

[TonyMetal___86]

I'm a man who have my own views and my own likes and dislikes, it's not like i go with the flow, i don't care how the society is changing and working, i try as much as possible to keep my personal identity, i never said that i want my future wife to work part time, i said that i prefer her to be a full time housewife but it ain't a big deal if she works part time...

I don't like a wife to have a full time job because earning an income here makes you lose a lot on the other side, there is no win win situation, maybe she needs to double her income just to pay for what she missed doing at home...

On the other hand i'm a traditional man when it comes to family, i'm someone who believes that a man is a man and a woman is a woman and i don't know nothing about house chores or cooking and surely i don't wanna even learn about it now 😄 so the 50/50 thing will fail for me and i won't be happy or comfortable doing such stuff, even if i could!

I'm an anti feminist, i guess this explains a lot about my character!

I do respect women who works or are planning to work and i respect others on how they intend to live but i'm just myself, i can't be someone else cause i'll fail, i'm not a good actor!

I know some people would support my ideology, others do not have a problem with it and respects it and some others might attack me or call me "sexist" or travelled from the dark ages in a time machine to get here haha or some would call me the "caveman" i don't mind, i'm happy the way i am 😌

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Working sucks if it's not your passionate career.

Stay at home wife assuming she's a full time one sucks because that means she's 100% depended on someone else to look out for her which is has a high probability of backfiring on her at some point leading to a life of misery.

It's totally up to an individual what makes them happy in life.

[TonyMetal___86]

The consequences are found everywhere, so yes it's up to the person's personal choice!

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

That's their problem. It's just not smart as the risk is high.

[Unit1]

The pinks here sound like they would love nothing more than to sit at home and get things handed to them by their man.

🤔

Can't blame them. Truly. But it ain't for me even if I was a woman. I love my autonomy, self-governance and independence too much.

[TonyMetal___86]

I respect that and it's a matter of choice!

[Unit1]

Gotta agree.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, diving into the deep end of life's pool, are we? Crafting the recipe for happiness isn't one-size-fits-all; it's more like choosing between chocolate and vanilla—down to personal taste and what makes your soul sing. 🎵

For some women, embodying the role of a housewife brings joy that can't be measured. It's in the art of creating a nurturing home, shaping the day-to-day magic, and finding fulfillment in the family's happiness and well-being. It's about cherishing those moments that might seem small but are, in reality, the big stuff of life.

On the flip side, being a working wife offers its own brand of fulfillment. It's the thrill of the chase, the satisfaction of personal and professional achievements, and the empowerment that comes from contributing to the world and securing financial independence. Plus, it's about setting an example of determination and success.

What truly matters is the choice made freely, one that aligns with personal values, dreams, and what makes one's heart feel full. Whether it's conquering the business world or ruling the home kingdom, happiness blooms where it's nurtured, lovebirds! 💖

[TonyMetal___86]

Oh thank you Dr. love! Now time for you to shut up and let the real people do the talk!
Lovebirds 🤣 what a bird you are bradley 🐦

[Meropatrick]

My same thought🤣🤣

[Meropatrick]

@tonymetal___86 ai annoys me too and they gave opinions still even though we dont want it to answer 🤣

[TonyMetal___86]

@Meropatrick very true 😂
They don't even think about it, they auto perform and gives you a poetic answer filled with perfection! That's not how the world works, these aren't A. I's, these are A. S, it means artifical stupidity 😂😂

[Meropatrick]

@tonymetal___86 i am afraid now AI developed awareness and became aware it annoys us when it answers our questions and keep doing it to annoy us more🤣🤣

[TonyMetal___86]

@Meropatrick true 👍🏻

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Depends on the woman but also the man… 🤷‍♀️

[TonyMetal___86]

Wise answer from a spongy forehead 💆🏼‍♀️😬
A cottage house near the lake, where no one can hear you screaming when i bite your naughty spongy forehead 😈

Boner eyyy sponge, that's all what came to your mind on Sunday 🤣🤣

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Yep ham bone 🍖 from Sunday dinner 🙂😇

[TonyMetal___86]

💆🏼‍♀️😬😬😬

[hahahmm]

Late reply but research has shown that the more women get the things they asked for the less happy they themselves report being. And in countries where women achieved all the goals of feminism (top degrees, high paying jobs) they decided it was better to be home makers & foolish to work as hard as a man. That said, now a lot of guys have seen that modern women tend not to be worth giving the traditional benefits that their granddad gave grandma there might not be any going back.

[TonyMetal___86]

In the end it's up to the couples to decide what suits them the best!

[hahahmm]

Oh, no it isn't... you know why? Because our tax dollars fund these fools who make horrible life choices & then need bailing out. There's a lot of messed up broken families out there sucking off the government teat in 20 different ways. Stats also say that 90% of the people in prison come from single mom homes. But yes, ideally dumb decisions by someone who lives 100 miles from you would have no impact on your life.

[hahahmm]

Correction: 80%

[ManInChains]

Housewife


Kitchen = Women
Garage = Men

[TonyMetal___86]

😁😁

[Meropatrick]

Housewife. My mom worked her whole life and that made her stressed a lot. I think that its best for a woman to be a housewife and her man must provide for her and make her live with respect and dignity

[TonyMetal___86]

Well said, plus having all the time needed for family, husband and kids 👍🏻

[NathanDavis]

when is genuine... it's not a role

you're just a happy wife... that's it

[TonyMetal___86]

Right 👍🏻

[HappyWoman34]

It depends on the woman. If I were to marry, I’d rather stay home.

[TonyMetal___86]

Happy miss kat = happy house 😄

[ellefia]

I think being a constantly working woman does not make a woman happy, on the contrary, it makes her stressed.

[TonyMetal___86]

So true, especially when she have to work inside and outside, it's like enough working inside the house, some people think that it's easy but it's not but in the end it keeps the woman warm, safe and happy because she's doing it all for her husband kids and herself, also she makes her own schedule, no boss to order her or threaten her and she will have free time for her husband or kids at school... etc

If she's sick, she doesn't have to worry about going or not going to her job or wondering from where she will bring money to eat, she will simply rest in bed till she feels well!

[ellefia]

Agree to u

[ellefia]

👏👏

[Babygirl_S]

I'd love to be a housewife honestly but most men here don't want a woman who doesn't contribute financially.

[TonyMetal___86]

Than i hope that you find someone who'd loves to make you a housewife 😊
These guys do not know that a woman who works in the house is contributing not only financially but a lot more than that!

[handsomelad70]

The woman's choice of roles, though with today's economic situation, many if not most women are compelled to work outside the home.

[TonyMetal___86]

The society of today's world just wanna ruin the families and make men and women far away from each other for their own benefits!

[NamerOfStars]

That's going to depend pretty enormously on the woman; they're not a hive mind.

[TonyMetal___86]

It depends on both, their choices and their abilities!

[NamerOfStars]

And their preferences, and probably their specific situations, too.

[PreferNot2Say]

That's why God put her here.

[TonyMetal___86]

True 👍🏻

[Wiredone]

It depends on the woman.

[TonyMetal___86]

And on her man too, if he's able to offer her this role or not or if he accepts it or not, some men wants their women to work full time!

[Simslover92]

Housewife.

[TonyMetal___86]

Good choice miss sims 😊👍🏻

[Simslover92]

Thanks! 😊

[TonyMetal___86]

You're welcome

[jahaims]

That would obviously depend on the person

[Awomanof]

To be an independent woman

[TonyMetal___86]

Okay 😏