How often do you have unreasonable crushes?

[Anonymous]

It happens to me rarely to get a crush on a girl. But when I do, it's just ridiculous. I'm madly in love and for what reason? I literally don't know her besides seeing her casually among other people.

Yet here I am pining for her. Beautiful girls are literally EGERYWHERE! I'm talking to this beautiful girl and that beautiful girl.

And the one I have a crush on is literally the only one I can see. And of course, she doesn't like me.

I'm flirting with other girls and I feel nothing for them. I'm only flirting because they're flirting. I'm only flirting because I feel like I have to because eventually I will have to get over this girl I have a crush on.

It sucks because I know it's not going to go away and my heart aches for her. How stupid and silly is that? How can I have such a feeling for a girl I barely know? Shouldn't I only feel those feelings after being in a relationship with her?

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the mysterious ways of the heart! You know, feeling like you've been hit by cupid's arrow for someone you barely know isn't silly or stupid—it's human. Our brains are wired for connection and sometimes, they decide to go overboard with someone who just happens to tick all the right boxes in our subconscious checklist. 🤷‍♂️ Love at first sight? More like love at first 'sight-uation,' am I right?

But here's the kicker: these intense crushes often say more about our own state of mind and inner desires than about the object of our affection. It's like your heart is putting on those rose-colored glasses and going, "This! This is what we need!" even though your rational mind is like, "But do we even know her?"

So, what to do? First, acknowledge the feelings without judgment. It's okay to have them. Then, shift your focus towards getting to know her more if possible, or if not, channel that energy into understanding what aspects you're really attracted to. Is it her smile, the way she interacts with others, or just the idea of her? Sometimes, understanding the 'why' behind our crush can help us move past it.

And remember, flirting with others without any real interest might temporarily distract you, but dealing with your feelings head-on will benefit you in the long run. Plus, who knows? Exploring your feelings might lead to some interesting self-discoveries, or hey, maybe even the chance to connect with your crush on a deeper level. Keep your heart open, but don't let it run off without taking your brain with it. Love is a marathon, not a sprint. 😉💘

[Boomchakalaca]

U sound like a fan boy

[Asker]

I am ❤️

[Anonymous]

I have never had a crush.

[Asker]

Are you an alien? That doesn't even make sense. How can you have never had a crush?

[Anonymous]

What’s so special about her

[Asker]

She's smart and super funny and makes me laugh. She's also super sexy and pretty but thats not why I like her. There are other girls who look better I suppose.

I love her personality I love her hair I love her cute voice I love her eyes I love how she looks at me sometimes tho not so much anymore knowing that when she looks at me it means literally nothing.

[Opinion Owner]

What’s her personality? Damn how’s her hair? When she looks at u it means nothing?

[Asker]

She just has a nice energy. She is fun and very funny without trying.

Her hair is long and black and shiny and pretty and she puts it in a ponytail and she looks so damn cute.

I know when she looks at me it means nothing because she rejected me.

I asked her out because I thought she liked me. Because we would have these moments where we would just stand there and stare into eachofhers eyes for 5-10 seconds without saying anything.

I thought she liked me. And it hurt when she rejected me so hard as if I was harassing her or annoying her by asking her out.

[Opinion Owner]

She rejected u? Maybe u weren’t making your intentions clear ,

[Asker]

My intentions were to date her and hope to marry her. I can't just say that to her lol. That's crazy right?

I know she didn't know my intentions I just can't imagine saying that to a woman. She'll just think I'm crazy!

[Opinion Owner]

She thought u were using her for sex. How old are u both

[Opinion Owner]

How tall and heavy are u both? Is she good looking? Are u handsome

[Asker]

I am 6'1" she might be 5'6" or maybe even 5'8" I suppose she's a bit taller than most girls.

She has an absolutely perfect body. She is slim thick. Thick thighs yet her tummy is perfectly flat and cute b cup tits.

She has an unconventional beauty. Her eyes and her face remind me of something from my past I don't know what. But it draws me to her too.

I am handsome which I hate to say honestly. But when random women approach me all the time what am I supposed to think?

I'd say her body is a 10 and her face is at least a 7 but I have a special liking to her face. But her beauty is unconventional so some might not like her like I do.

Me i have a good amount of muscle and I've always been fit and such.

Do you think I should give another shot at asking her out? Maybe just express the way I feel for her. I'm afraid to try. She shut me down so hard I feel like she won't even listen to a word I have to say.

Like she almost seemed offended that I asked. I feel like if I try to say anything she is just going to hurt me even more by being a jerk about it. I don't know why she had such a reaction.

[Opinion Owner]

Ask her out to a movie. Tell her u already booked cab and bought tickets and u really want her to join u. Pre pay everything and keep it ready. Damn I didn’t know guys likes small tits

[Opinion Owner]

U should not confess. Confessing means u are not asking her to be someone to u. Proposing and taking her out means u are being someone to her

[Opinion Owner]

How heavy are u both? Your ages?

[Opinion Owner]

U told u love her hair? How do u and her style your hair? Do guys notice hair? How do u like it

[Asker]

I don't know what she weighs but she is not even close to fat. I weight about 200lbs with muscle. My fat kevek depends in if I'm bulking or cutting weight so it goes up and down lol.

Yes men love small tits. I love small tits they make my heart sing lol.

I'm bald so my hair is gone. She just has this perfectly straight hair and it's very long and beautiful.

We are both around 26-30.

I feel like telling her I am in love with her and just making sure she doesn't want me because I need to move on.

[Opinion Owner]

U are bald? Sad. Damn 200 lbs is 100 kilos

[Opinion Owner]

Glad to know men love small tits. Mine are 32 B and I wish I had bigger ones for my husband

[Opinion Owner]

Left me on read lol

[Opinion Owner]

Why u love her? Do u think of sex with her

[Asker]

I'm over it. She don't like me she missed out.

[Opinion Owner]

She missed out?

[Opinion Owner]

What are u doing these days