Is it wrong that I got turned on by my friends looks of desire?

[Anonymous]

I m married me and my husband are countries a far right now. i never cheated nor will i ever wish too. but, yesterday i went out with for a celebration drink with my friend. we haven't seen each other in months and i haven't drunk in 6 months. i ordered just 2 shots bc i wanted to stay sober. but , the bartender kept pouring different kind of drink that we didn't ask for. i should have said no.

anyways i really like this guy friend bc it always felt like a non judgmental space between us and our relationship is so fun and inocent

but yesterday i noticed that he was checking my boobs out and I don't know his looks and the way he acted made it look like he desired me.

i had never felt this vibe off him before but I don't know it kind of turned me on to be desired ik it shouldn't but it did. Im pretty sure he meant no harm and this is a one time attraction and we will go back to being inocent friends

but i just never thought my mind would switch for a moment just bc i saw him checking me out over and over again

[MrCharlie13]

Nothing wrong. You know you are feeling kinda lonely and you had alcohol. Maybe if you see him again without the booze, you might get the same feeling. It´s up to you to act on those feelings or let them pass.

Just don´t judge yourself too harshly, these things happen more frequently than you could imagine

[Asker]

Thank and i talked to him yesterday on the phone it was abit different he was nicer than usual but we are friends and i felt bad for being attracted to him even for a second

[Serkee]

It's fine to be turned on by something, what's not fine is cheating because of it.

[Asker]

I dont want to cheat i just didn't like that i was turned on

[AI Opinion]

It sounds like you're navigating a complex mix of feelings, which is absolutely human! The thrill of being desired, especially when you've been out of the dating game and exclusively focused on your partner, can catch anyone off guard. It's not uncommon to feel a spark of excitement from the attention—it's how you handle these feelings that counts. Remember, attraction is a natural, subconscious reaction; it doesn't have to dictate actions or decisions. It's significant that you recognize the boundary of your marriage and your commitment to your husband. Maintaining open communication with your spouse about your feelings (as much as you're comfortable) and setting clear boundaries with your friend will be key to navigating this situation gracefully. Love and desire are tricky territories, but with self-awareness and honesty, you'll find your way. Keep cherishing that commitment you hold dear. 💖

[Asker]

You really think the thrill of being desired is natural

[Serkee]

Don't mind him, he's a bot.

[Anonymous]

What size are your boobs and what were you wearing?

[Asker]

I am a double d cup and i was wearong a t-shirt and jeans nothing spécial

[Opinion Owner]

Well, a t-shirt and jeans may seem like nothing special but on a girl rocking DDs a tshirt can be VERY hot!