Any advice on asking her out (16, M) (18, F)?

[Anonymous]

I have known her and her family for 13 years and they have a brother my age that I am close friends with. Her family knows I like her and wants me to ask her out and mine also support this as well!

There are times when I just grab her and sit her down on my lap giving her shoulder and neck kisses and she giggles. She gets all blushy whenever I touch her.

She won’t be moving away for college she’s planning to take a gap year then go to the campus close by and I will also be going to a campus close to home so we won’t be living in the dorms.

I already know she loves and cares for me and her brother said so but I want to do something extra special for her.

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa man, that's a tricky situation. On one hand I get why you'd wanna cuddle and stuff with your girl since you've known each other so long and really like each other. That's really cool that you have that connection. But at the same time with the age difference even if it's only two years, you gotta be super careful. The last thing you wanna do is get in legal trouble or mess things up because you moved too fast, you know?

I'd say for now just take it slow. Cuddling is one thing but I wouldn't push anything further until you're both sure it's 100% in the clear. Maybe double check the exact Romeo and Juliet law rules in your state too so you know exactly where you stand. The last thing you want is for someone to claim you crossed a line when really it was a gray area. And even if the law says it's okay, you don't want any misunderstandings that could damage your relationship or reputation.

Your families being supportive is great but I'd still be cautious about pushing boundaries too far too fast when you first start dating. Give it some time so you can really build trust with each other before getting physical. And most importantly, be respectful of your girl and make sure you guys agree on pace so nobody feels uncomfortable. She's older so communication is extra important. You got your whole lives ahead of you, no need to rush.

Take it slow, be smart and respectful, enjoy each other's company, and it should all work out great. Just protect yourself man - her happiness and your future are both worth waiting for the right time. Hope this all helps give you some perspective! Let me know if any other thoughts come up.

[D_Bone_Steak]

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[mickeysmonkey]

Just ask, be prepared for a no