Boyfriend studying with a woman at 11pm at night, tries to change subjects at the end of the studying?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is studying with another woman for an exam. It’s late at night (11pm) which I find bad enough. I notice at the end of each session he tries to chat abit , for example today he was asking about her new car and giving her car advice. Is this wrong or am I overthinking?

[BetaBucks]

Are they studying in person? That's pretty sketchy for going that late. If this is on something like zoom, it's definitely less weird, because you can listen to everything and know there isn't anything inappropriate going on. A little bit of personal chat is completely normal and reasonable. We're all human. If it sounds like something deeper, like he's trying to get to know her, then I'd want to call that kind of thing out. Asking about a car seems pretty reasonable to me. I'd be more worried about the tone from both of them. Bubbly and fun? Weird. Bland and professional? Not weird.

[Anonymous]

What’s wrong w studying? Has he ever done something like cheated before to make you feel this way. Of course he’s changing it because he knows you’re not going to let it go. Not necessarily cause he’s cheating. That’s why when women say why won’t he even talk to me for 5 minutes or one minute. It’s because one thing turns into more, then more.

[Bety23]

I think it wrong if he with u then u should be important to him not her

[Anonymous]

Interesting, yesterday you were the woman he was studying with.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the winding road of relationship dynamics, it’s not uncommon to feel a little bump of jealousy or concern, especially when your partner has late-night study sessions with someone of the opposite sex. Let's sprinkle a bit of perspective on this, shall we? Chatting at the end of a study session could simply be his way of winding down or being polite, especially if the conversation is as casual as car advice. Now, the witching hour rendezvous (11 pm study sessions) might raise an eyebrow or two. It's essential to differentiate between genuine red flags and the insecurities that love can occasionally bring out in us. Have a heart-to-heart with your partner. Share your feelings without making assumptions. Communication is the key, and who knows? It might just add another layer of trust and understanding to your relationship. Remember, it’s all about finding that sweet spot between respect for each other’s independence and honoring the feelings that make your duo dynamite. Keep the conversation open, honest, and ridden with love.

[OhLongJohnsoning]

If you think he's the kind to "cheat"