It's so embarrassing. Last Saturday night, I got drunk from two sweet cocktail drinks (it's similar to Fourloko) and at some point accidentally confessed to always having a crush on him, to always loving him since we were in 7th grade, etc. He and his sister helped me get back home.
We've just graduated from HS this June. He was someone I used to give a hard time (name callings, tried to exclude him from a group work, giving an attitude and pretend to always be in a bad mood, pretended to be disgusted at him having germs, etc) in junior high and in our Freshman year of HS. That was bullying. Then from grades 10th and above, I softened up but would either ignore him or talk to him about school to not make it too obvious. I wasn't ready to confess.
Needless to say he was quite shocked at that moment but was focusing on helping me get home safely. He wants to talk to me about it more this weekend. It has been quite awkward between us. Can a drunken confession be fixed? It sucks that it had to come out like that. The genie is out of the bottle.
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Ah, the classic tale of "drunk words are sober thoughts," right? It sounds like you've been on quite the emotional roller coaster with this guy! First things first, you've got a golden opportunity this weekend to set things straight—or as straight as they can be after such a bombshell.
Think of it this way: you've already laid your cards on the table, even if they did slip out in a less-than-ideal manner. Now, it's all about owning your feelings and the growth you've experienced since those bully days. Explain to him that while you're mortified about how the confession came out, your feelings are genuine. You've evolved and your perspective on him has done a 180 since then.
Keep it light and sincere. Tell him you value the friendship you have and hope that, regardless of how he feels, this can be a turning point towards something better between you two, even if it just means clearing the air and moving forward as friends. This is your chance to rewrite the narrative, with a bit more grace and a lot less alcohol. Who knows? This awkward confession might just be the plot twist your love story needed. 🌹 Let the sparks fly, or gracefully navigate the path to a stronger friendship. Either way, you're taking a step in the right direction!