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Am I controlling wife to you?

I thank everyone for the outstanding support on my previous post on here. I am trying to be a supportive wife as possible during my husband dealing with his mental health. I’m still standing by his side.

My husband wanted to unalive himself in the middle of a field. He is a nice person and people took advantage of it. I finally announced that he’s okay and alive. Nothing more, nothing specific, nothing private. It’s nobody business what’s happening.

However, these people were throwing parties like he was dead. They were under the impression that he was dead since his whereabouts remained unknown. They had my husband face on the back of a t-shirt. Making heavenly birthday statuses about him. As soon as they found out he was alive, these people tone changed. They were perfectly fine with him dead and gone.

He told me “thanks for not putting him out”. He wanted to break contact with people including family members. He also changed his phone number. I, as his wife put up strong boundaries to help improve his mental health. At his request, I only allow 2 of his friends.

He is okay and prefer me to make decisions that will continue to keep the pressure off of him. People see me as a “bitch” for taking my husband out of this. as long as they thought my husband was dead, people were just fine.

My husband wanted to unalive hisself and I just want to help him. I’m not trying to be a controlling wife at all. I’m just standing strong with my husband and for my husband. I don’t answer any questions specifically or tell anything.

Now people seeing me as a controlling bitch of a wife

Am I controlling wife to you?
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