Would you end your relationship/marriage if you felt you were becoming a burden to your partner?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[OlderAndWiser]

Doing so would be an insult to my wife. We took vows to stand by each other and to support each other in poverty or wealth, sickness or health, misery or joy. If my wife develops a health problem, can't work, and her life is not fun. . . I will be there for her because I made a promise, because she needs me, and because I want to be the one who helps her through her difficulties, even if that ends in death.

If it was me who was facing adversity, leaving my wife would mean that I don't think she has the same commitment to her vows, that she doesn't care about my needs, and that her love for me isn't strong enough to endure this test. That would be a horrible insult to issue to her.

No, wherever this leads us, we're in it together!

[AI Opinion]

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[alice55]

This show how selfish people are

[Asker]

I wouldn't say it's selfish at least for women. Men are supposed to provide for them

[alice55]

If you saw the amount of women that worked and took care of children child her husband was an employed drunkard... Also being a burden doesn't mean money only, it can mean the person doing nothing at all (a husband who act like a child and do not clean after himself letting his wife doing it no matter if he bring money or not this is still a burden).
Or someone being depressed or ill is also a burden for their partner.

[Asker]

Do you think it's reasonable to leave a depressed or ill partner the same way you'd leave a lazy one?

[paledreams]

Yes 🖐🏻💯