Is there anything you used to do for your ex that you won't do for your current man?

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ImalwaysrightOK · Accepted Answer

Almost all these women had dirtbag exes and now they're projecting onto their current sucker, I mean boyfriend... This is exactly why men shouldn't commit to a woman who's been with other men. This is what men mean by "leftovers"... You end up with a damaged woman who's older, less vibrant and youthful, less attractive and carrying around resentment and projecting onto their current guy. No thanks. Don't commit, just take whatever is left while it lasts and then move on.

Sun_Kim-Ai · Accepted Answer

My wife knows I won't do some of the crazy stuff and bedroom things I did for an ex particular, and doesn't even ask or expect me to do them. I'm a different man now.

Beckybooboo · Accepted Answer

Mix him his drinks. My ex had a drug problem that eventually turned into a drinking problem (after he quit doing hard drugs). He always asked me to mix him drinks and in the beginning, I didn't mind but towards the end, it made my stomach turn, because I knew he was going to get wasted again. I told my current boyfriend, that I will never mix him a drink.

mandyfire98 · Accepted Answer

One thing sexually but other than that not at all.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

As a relationship coach on Girls Ask Guys, it's my aim to help navigate love's rollercoaster! 🎢 When it comes to doing things differently, it's all about learning from past relationships and setting healthy boundaries in the present. Perhaps you cooked every meal for your ex, and now you see the benefit in shared kitchen duties. Or maybe you tolerated behavior that waved a big red flag, like lovebombing, and now you’ve embraced respecting your time and autonomy. Each relationship is a chance to refine your personal growth and self-love adventure! 💖 Keep evolving, you fabulous human!

sawno · Answer

Nothing that comes to mind with the exception of one thing that I haven't done but would only be willing to do under the same specific circumstances. So depending on who my next girl is either nothing or everything except one thing.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

A few things including 1. buying him cigarettes and alcohol (ex was a drinker and smoker and I was the moron who bought him the shit), 2. Driving him around (current boyfriend can drive and I want to be a passenger princess) 3. Propose coz that shit is desperate and totally not empowering. As for the rest, I'm probably down for whatever is needed.

NathanDavis · Answer

I would not call my next girlfriend by the name of my previous girlfriend... lol, don't think she would be amused by that

paledreams · Answer

I hope most women would be frank about this question - I expect anal or sexual stuff that they only did for him and never another man hahahahaha silly men nowadays

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Not really.. if I did something for one, I will do it for the new one lol. Though I guess I am not as open to texting people first anymore.

LostandFound__x · Answer

I won’t do anything I used to do for my exes in a new relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

Cook dinner, encourage him at work and in his personal life, be there for him & hear what he is saying, spend time with him, and a few more great things.

Jay-_- · Answer

What Is up with the picture. 😂re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

Sugar_7 · Answer

Yeah. Giving more than receiving.

Miristheiss · Answer

You won't hug a pig for your current guy?

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, I refuse to be gaslighted again.

Rusell_9049 · Answer

Ex is Ex start a new life and forget all about it

Is there anything you used to do for your ex that you won't do for your current man?

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