I feel my ex of 7 months took my trust. There were so many vulnerable moments of my trust being put to the test. But I kept fighting for myself and for the relationship. Only to be labeled as ‘crazy’, ‘overthinking’, and ‘paranoid’. And you know what? All the labels that were given to me, were justifiable. Because I had very good reasons to feel that way. That I found my ex losing interest in me and chatting with other girls. Either way, my relationship was not good for my health. It was stressful and exhausting at times. That I don’t see myself jumping into another relationship right away.
I just hope I heal, do more activities and hopefully make friends. Cause that’s what I want at this moment. To be surrounded by happy and positive people.
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Did your ex take something from you that made you not jump into another relationship?
I think she took away many of my weaknesses. When I lost, I introspected a lot and found so many things about me that were not good enough. I am now a far better man. If god asked me whether I'm willing to pay the cost of losing my love to make myself the man I am today, I would be up for it.
Even though I believe I'm a better person, I do not know if I'm a better partner now because I am not motivated to do that much for my (future) partner that I did in the past. I wish I can be enthusiastic and crazy enough for her but I do not know if I'll be willing to invest that much into a relationship anymore. So yeah, she took away that too.
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I wish the best for your recovery. It's common and understandable for someone to lose trust after a failed relationship. But I am sure that you agree to the fact that not all men are same and there are so many faithful men out there. Hopefully you'll meet someone who won't drain you out. In fact, he will give you all the spirit to thrive in the life.
I can remember breaking up with her over the phone like it was only yesterday. It was sad and a little scary but afterwards I knew it was the best option for both of us.
Sure it hurts us. After some time while working to move past the past… I start to think positive… and learned from it. Then meet someone new who is more compatible with me.
