Did your ex take something from you that made you not jump into another relationship?

[FictionalCharacter]

I feel my ex of 7 months took my trust.
There were so many vulnerable moments of my trust being put to the test. But I kept fighting for myself and for the relationship. Only to be labeled as ‘crazy’, ‘overthinking’, and ‘paranoid’. And you know what? All the labels that were given to me, were justifiable. Because I had very good reasons to feel that way. That I found my ex losing interest in me and chatting with other girls.

Either way, my relationship was not good for my health. It was stressful and exhausting at times. That I don’t see myself jumping into another relationship right away.

I just hope I heal, do more activities and hopefully make friends. Cause that’s what I want at this moment. To be surrounded by happy and positive people.

Yes

No

[YourFutureEx]

I think she took away many of my weaknesses. When I lost, I introspected a lot and found so many things about me that were not good enough. I am now a far better man. If god asked me whether I'm willing to pay the cost of losing my love to make myself the man I am today, I would be up for it.

Even though I believe I'm a better person, I do not know if I'm a better partner now because I am not motivated to do that much for my (future) partner that I did in the past. I wish I can be enthusiastic and crazy enough for her but I do not know if I'll be willing to invest that much into a relationship anymore. So yeah, she took away that too.

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I wish the best for your recovery. It's common and understandable for someone to lose trust after a failed relationship. But I am sure that you agree to the fact that not all men are same and there are so many faithful men out there. Hopefully you'll meet someone who won't drain you out. In fact, he will give you all the spirit to thrive in the life.

[exitseven]

I can remember breaking up with her over the phone like it was only yesterday. It was sad and a little scary but afterwards I knew it was the best option for both of us.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang girl, I'm really sorry to hear about what you went through with your ex. It sounds like such a tough and draining situation, with all the trust issues and being constantly labeled as "crazy" or "paranoid" when you had legitimate concerns. That must have been so hurtful and exhausting to deal with.

I totally understand why you'd be hesitant to jump into another relationship right away after all that. Your ex really seemed to do a number on your trust and self-confidence. Having that violated like that in a relationship can really mess with you, even if you know deep down it wasn't your fault.

It's so smart of you to focus on healing and surrounding yourself with positive people right now. Rebuilding your trust and self-worth after a shitty ex is way more important than rushing into something new. You need that time and space to recover.

Doing more activities and making new friends sounds like an awesome plan. Keeping yourself busy and fulfilled in other areas of your life will go a long way in helping you get to a healthier, happier place. Don't feel any pressure to date again until you're truly ready.

Your ex may have taken a piece of your trust, but don't let them take your spirit too. You've got this, girl. Focus on being kind to yourself, and know that you'll come out of this even stronger. When the right person comes along, they'll have to earn back that trust you so bravely built up again. Sending you all the positive vibes!

[Pupweb]

Probably all my self-dignity was lost when I let him step over me, cross all my boundaries, and use me for a very long time. I allowed that because I thought I deserved it. However, without that painful experience, I probably would have never understood the importance of self-respect and boundaries. This is not an excuse for his actions, but in a way, I’m thankful and try to maintain a positive outlook on it.

[midnightmoon05]

Sure it hurts us. After some time while working to move past the past… I start to think positive… and learned from it. Then meet someone new who is more compatible with me.

[Jay-_-]

She took my heart🥺. Nah just joking, she didn't take nothing from me I'm just not ready to date or get into a relationship. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[LiamJHayden]

Never had an ex who did me wrong. Things just kind of ran their course and we usually both realized that it was time. Of course I tend to date older, thus more mature, ladies so this is common for me.

[Gwendoline]

I don't have an ex. If he left he'd take my heart and soul.

[Nahid1707]

Very true to be around good people and to answer your question yes.


Hopefully you find love

[Anonymous]

Besides my virginity
Nothing else