My boyfriend drunkly said that is sister (s) are more important then me, was it right for me to feel upset?

[Anonymous]

hi there.

last night we were invited to my in-law's birthday part, she had a theme going on and i dressed up, i am very artsy and put my creativity into my costume. we went to the party and my partner and i had some wine, i really sat alone as i didn't know anyone that went, i know i could of mingled, but im not a very social person, i like doing my own thing. i ended up sitting outside the venue as it was very warm inside and i told my partner why i was outside, i said that i felt really hot and needed some fresh air. i was starting to feel tired and asked my partner if we could go home, it was going on 11pm and i needed to go home to sleep as i had a rather early start at work.

he said "no, i dont want to go home with you right now. this is my sisters birthday and my sister is more important than you. my whole family is. i get 1 day off during the week and i dont want to go home and sit down with you and do absolutely nothing. she only has 1 party like this and your at home all the time". see the thing is i might be "at home all the time" but around 10% of that time he actually talks to me, sees me, hangs out with me, i definitely feel neglected in the relationship. he kept insisting i get a taxi and he walked me to the cab and i said "ill see you tomorrow hahah i will definitely crash when i get home and probably won't hear you" he said "oh go on, be a fwit and do this shit!" i messaged him after and said "i was joking?" he went back to the party to mingle with these girls that were there, 1 he kept eyeing off the whole time.

of course it made me upset, but i didn't say anything. we were supposed to go to this event in December and i said "due to how you spoke to me, i will be going with some friends instead now" i dont know if it upset him. i was so upset in the moment, i got home from work and we didn't speak to each other, but he trashed the house while i was away and it actually made me cry again. he did speak and tell me he was hungry, i just dk what to do

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i will put this update in as i couldnt add it.

but his sisters treat us like doormats, they visit every weekend and they trash my house and i have to be a waitress and clean up after them, they even leave dirty diapers in my house for me to find. they decide randomly that they dont want their kids for the weekend and we are the babysitters/day careers. i told my partner i am not a nanny and i want my weekends to craft and unwind from work, but he still allows them to do this

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa girl, that's a really tough and emotionally charged situation with your boyfriend. I can totally understand why you're feeling so upset and hurt after the way he spoke to you at that party.

The fact that he flat-out told you his sisters are more important than you is just straight-up disrespectful, especially when you were already feeling neglected in the relationship. That kind of blatant dismissal of your feelings would really sting for anyone.

And the way he yelled at you and told you to "be a fwit" when you were just trying to go home and rest? That's just plain rude, no matter how drunk he was. You deserve way better than that kind of treatment.

I really don't blame you for being upset about what happened and wanting to reconsider going to that event in December with him. He clearly has some issues valuing you and prioritizing your needs, and that's not okay in a healthy relationship.

The fact that he then came home and trashed the house while you were away just adds insult to injury. It sounds like he has some growing up to do when it comes to taking responsibility for his actions and treating you with basic respect.

And on top of all that, the way his sisters have been treating you is totally unacceptable. Leaving dirty diapers in your house and expecting you to be their free, on-call babysitter? Hell no. You're not a doormat, girl!

My advice would be to have a really honest, direct conversation with your boyfriend about all of this. Tell him exactly how his words and actions made you feel, and be clear that you won't tolerate that kind of disrespect from him or his family. Set some firm boundaries.

If he doesn't start making some major changes and valuing you the way you deserve, then you may need to seriously consider whether this relationship is right for you. You shouldn't have to put up with being treated like an afterthought.

Remember, you are so much more than just a girlfriend or a glorified sister-in-law and babysitter. You're a strong, independent woman who has so much to offer. Don't settle for anything less than the love and respect you truly deserve.

Wishing you all the strength and clarity in the world, girl. You've got this!

[Asker]

Like i really understand family is important and if we were to break up, his family would still be there. But it was just how he said it. In that moment, i didn't say anything. There was so much going through my head i really wanted to say to him.

I was going to say “if your sister is so important to you and im not, she can wash your clothes, clean up your messes and feed you. Since im not important” but i bit my tongue, my mom said that i really shouldn't of.

I have family, but i moved away from my family. Just so he could have his family around him 24/7. His father even lives with us and his father does everything, while i clean the inside of the house, his father does my yard work. All the while my partner drinks and plays his Computer.

I have a brother that lives around 20 minutes from me and he has a partner and we get along so well, we are planning on going to this event together. My brother is important to me and i know he would do anything for me, as i would for him. But I've never make my partner feel insignificant and say my brother is more important then him and he only has 1 of the kinds of parties once in his life and just make my partner feel like crap

When i got home from work i started to clean up the mess he left and he was already had home, he slept all day and he didn't say anything to me. I ended up laying down to rest as i was on my feet all day and work was extremely busy. He came up and hugged me and then walked off, i still at that point hadn’t said anything. Then he came back a few hours later and said “i am hungry” i said “ok, i am too. So i will do dinner” and that was pretty much it. He didn't apologise for saying what he said.

I have tried and tried to give his sisters a chance, but i just personally think they are immature and very disrespectful little girls, they have 0 respect for both me and their brother and other peoples houses. It really not my cup of tea

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, that really sucks that your boyfriend didn't even apologize for how he treated you at the party. The way he dismissed your feelings and put his sister and family before you was just messed up. I get that family is important, but he had no right to make you feel so insignificant.

I totally understand why you wanted to say what you were thinking, about how his sister can do all the things for him that you do. That would have been a fair response to how he made you feel. But it's probably good that you didn't say that in the moment, even though it must have been really hard to hold back.

It's awesome that you have such a good relationship with your own brother. Having that support system is so valuable, especially when your partner's family is acting so disrespectful towards you. You shouldn't have to feel like the maid or nanny in your own home just because of his family's expectations.

I really hope you and your boyfriend can have an honest conversation about this soon. He needs to understand how much he hurt you and apologize properly. And he has to set some boundaries with his sisters - they can't just walk all over you guys like that. You deserve to feel respected and valued in your own home.

Hanging out with your brother at that event instead sounds like a great plan. Having that support and quality time with him is way better than dealing with more disrespect from your boyfriend's family. Stay strong, dude. You're clearly a really caring and thoughtful partner, and you shouldn't have to put up with being treated like crap.

[Asker]

i have set heaps of boundaries with them and have made them known to my partner and time and time again they keep disrespecting them, he doesn't have any boundaries with his family and with that i feel it will cause a wedge between us and we will eventually end up breaking up.

i have told my mom how i feel and how they all treat me, she has met his sisters a handful of times and she said to me that she doesn't like them and they act like butter wouldn't melt in their mouths, that they are putting themselves out there for attention. i agreed with her, that is how they act, they except attention from men all the time and think they are better off then everyone else. I've personally seen them do all of this while their kids are watching them. its not my cup of tea and something i dont have time for. i am a introvert outside of work, i like to stay home and do crafts, these activities i have tried to encourage my partner into doing, but he won't. i like shopping for craft stuff and i take my partner, but he complains the whole time we are at a shop and makes me run around like i am in a marathon. my crafts are really my escape.

i have told my mom that I've stopped allowing them to walk all over me, but my partner won't and the longer he allows them do to that, the worse it will get and the more times they will continue to do it. i am on a mutual ground with them and when they invite me to events i attend them out of respect. they dont really acknowledge me unless their brother is around

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang girl, it sounds like you've really tried your best to set boundaries with your boyfriend's family, but they just keep disrespecting them. That's so frustrating - it's not fair that you have to deal with that constant lack of respect in your own home.

And you're totally right that if your boyfriend can't start standing up for you and enforcing those boundaries, it's just going to keep causing problems in your relationship. That wedge is only going to get bigger and bigger until it tears you two apart. He needs to step up and have your back.

I get why you feel like an outsider with his family - it seems like they're all about the drama and attention-seeking, which is just not your vibe at all. Your mom's right, they do sound like they just have some growing up to do. And it sucks that they don't even acknowledge you unless your boyfriend is around. You deserve so much better.

It's so admirable that you've still tried to attend their events and be the bigger person. That shows a lot of maturity on your part. But you shouldn't have to force yourself to be around people who don't respect you. Your crafts and introverted hobbies are such a healthy way for you to recharge.

Your boyfriend really needs to understand how much this is impacting you and your relationship. If he can't start setting some firm boundaries with his family and making you a priority sometimes, then you might have to make the tough call to walk away. You shouldn't have to feel like an outsider in your own home.

I know it's not an easy situation, but please don't let them continue to walk all over you. You deserve so much better than that. Stay strong, girl - you've got this! Your happiness and well-being have to come first.

[Asker]

Some of the boundaries i have asked and tried to set are :

- messaging, calling or texting to tell me know they are visiting, what time or asking if i will be home. Not just turn up and expect me to drop everything to entertain them.
- ask about babysitting, before dumping their kids here and if the answer is “no sorry” accept that, not chuck a tantrum or just dump the kids here.
- be respectful when they visit my house, they make a mess, clean it up. The kids make a mess, clean it up. Not leave it for me to slave around and do.
- not to bring their kids over and expect me to be a nanny as soon as they turn up.
- not to raid my cupboards for food, asking and me offering is fine.
- if visiting and they are bringing their dogs, actually ask us if it is okay, not just bring them over.

These are just some of them and all of these i have said to my partner and they still continue to disrespect these boundaries time and time again.

There has been a few times his sisters have came over and shut our front gate and brought their dogs here and my boyfriend complained about it, but brushed it off like it didn't matter and there was another time her sister dumped her kid on us, came back drunk as, pushed her kid inside my house, slammed the door in his face and ran off to chase guys around the nightclub. My partner was furious and called her all the names he could think of, of course she was already gone. I said to him “im sorry, you did a bad thing. You waited for her to be down the road to call her names, you should of said it while she was here and this is the last we are babysitting. The future is no, i work all week, you work all week and we aren't a daycare of a weekend cause she wants to chase men around”. That was the only thing he agreed on and every time since then she's asked, he has said “nope”, i dont think she realises why we say “nope”

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn, it sounds like you've laid out some really reasonable and fair boundaries with your partner's family, but they just keep steamrolling right over them. That's so disrespectful and frustrating - you deserve so much better than that.

The fact that they just show up unannounced, dump their kids on you, make messes and refuse to clean up, and raid your kitchen without even asking is just flat-out rude. I can totally understand why you're at your wit's end.

And your partner not sticking up for you or enforcing those boundaries is a huge problem. He should be your teammate in this, not just letting his family walk all over you. The way he brushed it off when his sister slammed the door in his face is messed up.

I'm really proud of you for calling him out on that and making it clear that you're not going to be their free babysitter or maid anymore. Shutting that down and sticking to your "nope" is a great move. Hopefully it starts to sink in for them that you're serious.

But it's also concerning that even when your partner gets upset in the moment, he still doesn't seem to have your back long-term. He needs to step up and be a real partner here. If he can't do that, then this relationship may not be sustainable.

You deserve to feel respected and valued in your own home. Constantly having to fight for basic boundaries is just not fair. I get that his family is important, but they don't get to steamroll all over you like this.

[Oliverlogan263]

This is the kind of thing that could definitely drive a wedge between you two if it keeps up. You've gotta stand firm on your needs, even if it means having some really tough conversations with your partner. Don't be afraid to put your foot down - your well-being has to come first.

Wishing you so much strength and clarity as you navigate this, girl. You're handling it like a champ, but you shouldn't have to put up with this level of disrespect and lack of support. Stay strong, and don't be afraid to make the tough choices here. You've got this!

[Finchie40]

That’s your answer right there to dump his ass , tell him he can be with his sisters’ all he wants because you are going to find a guy that chooses you like you choose him , Do not waste your time on a guy like that , you will never be his priority because his family controls him , A loving guy would never choose his family over his partner. Mark my words

[Asker]

I do understand family is important and priority he should have in his life. I dont expect him to drop his family and cut them off, just to cater to me. Thats not a place i am coming from at all.

Where we are currently living he has his whole family at the touch of his fingers, he only has to click his fingers and his family arrives without question, i dont have that. I dont have any family here, a have a brother but he is around 20 minutes away.

I made the sacrifice of leaving my family and when i left them, i had to make the bigger decision to grow up and become independent (which i very much am) i do ring my mom from time to time, but i dont see her almost everyday, like my partner has the benefits of seeing his family everyday.

I rely and depend on my partner way too much i think, i have become a maid, a nanny and i work outside of things i want to do. I have tried to encourage my boyfriend into the crafts i do and i think it will help us connect more, but he refuses.

I have wanted to say that, that he should date his sister if she's so important. But I've kept my mouth closed and thought it, i have wanted to for a long time bring my brother around all the time and make him feel important and give my partner the same response he gave me, about how his sister is important and she only has 1 birthday every year and im at home 24/7. But i think the problem is, i just can't.

[Asker]

do think him being spoilt during his childhood has impacted his life today, i work hard for everything I've gotten, from funding my hobbies to buying video games and consoles i could afford as a child. Whereas my partner was given everything on a silver platter, he demanded something and he got it. I've told my mum that how they spoilt him isn't their problem anymore, its not mine and i am the one to put up with it. Currently, i am planning on saving money and moving out and leaving him here on his own, i haven't said anything to him about my plans. At this rate his made me feel like i am the sister and she is the girlfriend, i do hope he steps up and babies her son too and another one will have, if she doesn't close her legs 😂

[Finchie40]

Not saying for him to drop his family , but his family should never come before you , unless it was some major emergency , but when a partner chooses their family constantly over their partner , that partner isn’t receiving what they deserve , in your case , you are giving without receiving in return. My 21 year old daughter is dating a boy that is controlled by his family , they only want what they feel is best for him , and control everything he chooses to do, my daughter on the other hand is over how he chooses his family over her , she constantly butt heads with her boyfriend because of it , he constantly listens to his family over listening to my daughter , my daughter is now dumping his ass because of it , and I don’t blame her , No family should have any control over their child’s’ relationships and should have no control over who they date or who they are into. Families that do that are complete assholes that think their shit doesn’t stink , all they worry about is what other people think of them , like they are putting on this fake image of themselves like they are these amazing people when really they are nothing but fake. The Dad is a complete asshole and constantly tells his son what he can and cannot do , and sadly for the son , that’s all he knows, because that’s how he was raised. With a silver spoon in his hand. I raised my children to be independent, the same way you were raised , by you being with a boy that isn’t independent that can’t think for himself , you are in for a rude awakening, because nothing you do will ever be good enough , so I do t blame you for wanting to get out of that relationship. I have dated girls’ that were the same way with their family , a family that controlled her , that gave her strict rules not allowing her to live her life. Because how dare she do something on her own without her families permission. So if your boyfriend loves you and cares about you , he needs to distance himself from his family and choose

[Finchie40]

You, not them. If my parents’ told me who I could date or tried to make me choose them over my partner, I would laugh in their faces and tell them to Go Fuck themselves , lucky for me I did t have controlling parents’ that were that way. So my advice to you is to dump your boyfriend and find yourself an independent guy that isn’t controlled by his family , you will finally feel loved and appreciated when you do.

[Asker]

I've had my mom over a handful of times and when my boyfriend tells his sisters that my mom is visiting, they always come over. Just recently they visited and 1 of the girls went up to my mom and i (during mid talk) and said “look after my children for me!” And she said it so rudely, as she walked off and got into her car, leaving a 8 month old baby and her 3 year old son for my mother and i to watch. My mom and i looked at each other and went back to the conversation we were having. My mom ended up calling me the next day and said that the way she spoke was very rude and disrespectful. I agreed, but told her that they do this all the time. Her response (and this is a response i agree 100% with) was “they strut around like butter wouldn't melt in their mouths, i dislike them and i am starting to dislike your partner too. I always thought he was a nice boy, but his family control him way too much and he will learn the hard way eventually”. I agree with my mom, that his sisters are spoilt and think the world revolves around them. My partner and i share very similar interests, like gaming and a lot of other things, but at the same time we are very different and our priorities dont a line. If i was to dump my boyfriend (which i am very much considering) i dont think i could date for a long time, his turned me off kids and guys, he acts like a toddler and having a adult man baby son for 5 years have done it for me 🤣

[Asker]

There is also a lot with dont share, i didn't grow up better off then him, my mum made do with my brother an i as best as she could, especially being a single parent. We had a roof over our heads, a meal every night, a gameboy and bikes and honestly life was bloody great! My partner however came from a very different upbringing, having a new pc when he demanded it of a new video game/console, both of his parents caved into everything he wanted. I was brought up with respect, respect for peoples belongings, peoples homes and respect for my elders. Whereas my partners sisters raid my cupboards like they haven't ate and dont have food at their own homes, when i told my partner and his father about my upbringing, they basically shunned me

[Finchie40]

Yea it’s time for you to get the fuck out of that situation , you deserve so much better than that shit , My ass would already be out the door

[Screenwriter]

Lady, I'd say this guy has laid his cards on the table finally. You've said he's been neglecting you, his sisters are more important to him than you are... How many more insults are you willing to put up with?

He sounds bored and angry. You're not speaking to each other. He's trashed the house.

This man is abusive and is looking for a way out. GIVE IT TO HIM and move on. You don't need this kind of mistreatment, and see a therapist for your social reticence.

It's time for you to do and feel your best about yourself and your life.

You can't with this guy around. Good luck.

[Vesuvius87]

Looks like it's time to seek for a new boyfriend.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, darling, your feelings are totally valid! It sounds like you're facing some heavy emotional weather—like a chaotic rom-com without the comedy part! His actions during and after the party might be tossing out some serious red flags. While family bonds are important, dismissing your feelings isn’t cool. Communication is the key to most relationship doors. Talk about what you need and deserve: respect, love, and attention. You’re definitely not out of bounds for feeling upset. Prioritize your heart and happiness, babe! 🌟💕

[D_Bone_Steak]

It sucks that he's letting his female siblings use you like a slave.

I mean it's normal to treat them better than a random girl... but are you a random girl though? My sister wouldn't dare try any of the shit with my wife like his sisters are doing with you.

I think you have a right to feel upset.

[Asker]

Id never make my partner feel like my brother and my brother feel like my partner. My brother has a girlfriend and I've never treated her like a slave (i dont have kids with this donkey im with, so im very lucky) and dump kids off on her, visit my brothers house without a invite and demand that she become my nanny, while i message different men. I couldnt disrespect my brother and in his girlfriend in their own home like that.

My brother’s girlfriend and i get along so well, we go to markets/stalls together are into the same things, i treat her like a friend more then my sister in law lol. But a slave, a nanny and a maid id never.

Id never expect my brother to pick me over his girlfriend or his girlfriend over me, cause I've never put him in that situation and i dont expect my partner to do the same. But one day he has to man up and say something to his sisters, not let them use us as a doormat. But i feel like only he can do that

[D_Bone_Steak]

I think I agree that he should step up and put an end to it himself instead of just allowing it. It really sucks that he's putting you in the position of having to deal with them instead of dealing with his own shit show that he's invited to the table.

It makes me think he comes from a female-dominated household where the females basically run the show and he's programmed to let these women use him or whoever is attached to him like a doormat.

[Asker]

He was the only boy out of the 4 kids, his older sister that is in her 40s is his step sister and she is so respectful and she pretty much doesn't have anything to do with him or the other 2. Then there is the 2 biological sisters he has and they strut around like butter wouldn't melt in their mouths and thrive off the attention from different men.

My partners father hadn't been involved much in his oldest daughters life, as much as the other 2 girls. 1 of his sisters got married and daddys money paid for the whole thing, daddys money paid for my partners 30th (which i wasn't even allowed to be involved in, not even helping setting up for his birthday. They said that i wasn't allowed cause i had a big mouth and would tel him), daddys money even paid for this party miss prim and proper had. All 3 a spoilt and need everything to be perfect and need it their own way, even still my partner being 32 acts like a toddler half the time.

I didn't come from a childhood where i got everything i wanted, i work hard to get what i want now. I came from a rather poor upbringing and my father (that wasn't present) didn't cater to everything i wanted, my mom did her best and honestly she is a saint for that. I did tell my partner about my childhood and he kinda laughed about it and said it was funny we were on welfare and couldnt afford a new pc and that i missed out on so much

[overlord337645]

honestly i would say yes your feelings are valid but also while its not fun to hear it and he could have been nicer with you it is true his sisters should come first i mean unless your his wife i feel like his sisters should come before you however the way he said it is a diffrent story and i disagree he should not have said it like that for instance i probably would have phrased it ¨sorry I can't my sisters birthday is today but mabie we can some other time because i really do like you¨

[RageBabe]

Ngl, this is a red flag, but you should tell him how this made you feel, and if he doesn't “get it,” you might want to advise that he start dating his sister.

[Asker]

at one point he lived with his sister (that was a while before him and i started dating) and she ended up kicking him out, as he was lazy and wouldn't do anything to help her and the house they shared together. Now he lives with me and has been for 5 years, i do think his sister is in competition with me for her brothers love to some extent.

i will admit, my brother is important to me, he is the only sibling i have and him and his girlfriend are the only people closet to where i live. whereas my partner has his whole entire family at his fingertips. i left my family so he would have his family whenever he wanted.

his father lives with us, after even he kicked him out and basically said that his son was my problem. at the moment we live in this small nice house and our backyard is rather big. his sisters use my house as a literal dog park, when they visit they bring their dogs here and their kids and they dont ask if they can visit, they just turn up. I've tried and tried again to set boundaries with my partner about them, mainly them visiting unannounced and he just swept it under the rug. but gets mad when they visit unannounced. which i am super confused about. i dont mind going to social events, but i like going home, as my job is very demanding and i do all the socializing there, it gets a lot. i have tried so hard to get along with his sisters, like we are mutual, but the way they act and throw themselves into the center of attention and beg for attention off of everyone and how they think they are in competition with everyone isn't my vibe

[RageBabe]

This is interesting. Did they grow up with their father being at home, or was he a deadbeat father? Maybe that's why she feels so close to her brother if he were the male of the house.

[Asker]

from what he said, his upbringing was very different from mine, he had both of his parents present in their life, both worked very well paying jobs and he was very spoilt as a child, as was the other 2. my partner has a step sister (his fathers first daughter) who is way older and her and i get along very well we are both into the same things and she is very respectful. his father has next to nothing to do with his oldest daughter at all, all of his time and attention went to my partner and his other 2 sisters.

my partner described his upbringing to me one time, he said that anything he wanted he got it, he wanted a new computer he would say to his parents "i want this!" and he would get it, he had the new consoles and games, as he demanded them and his sisters were the same, during High school him and his siters would drink and do drugs, his parents allowed them to have open house parties every single weekend and drink and do drugs with random people. eventually his mother and father divorced, and his mother went off with a druggo and his father was the only 1 really around, his mother is a really bad alcoholic, i also found out thats where my partner gets it, as his mother would force him to drink. now he can't thrive off of the bottle. there are some nights he is alright when his drinking and other time he turns and bites like a snake.

when him and i lived in this small apartment his whole entire family acted like we didn't exist, now we have this nice home, they are here everyday almost. his father even said to me "if you ever leave, im taking this place from you!"

[RageBabe]

Oh wow, he needs to set limits with his sister. He must inform her that you are his girlfriend and that you take precedence over her because, well, he chose to enter into a relationship, and in a relationship, look out for one another. In addition to having the guts to tell her to mature up, he must tell her that he loves you and that her manipulative games end today; otherwise, he will have to limit contact with her. Best wishes.

[Asker]

i have tried to set boundaries with them and says "yes" but doesn't follow through and tell them. i only have boundaries with them, cause time and time again they cross them and crossing my boundaries is a disrespect to me, then i get upset and say something to my partner and then he turns it into a fight, i said to him "just because you have 0 boundaries, when it comes to your family, doesn't mean i do either".

i have a older brother and although i care for my brother and would do anything for him, he doesn't do what his siters do, the constant visiting without informing us, he doesn't raid my cupboards and take our food, he doesn't use my house as the local park, he doesn't go through my belongings. he is very respectful when he visits and i feel like in todays time, no one has decent respect for anyone.

my partners sisters even invited 1 of their girl friends to my house one night and dragged her through my house, like it was a art gallery. which made me so annoyed. my mom has met his sisters a hand full of times and she said "im sorry, i dont like them. they act like butter wouldn't melt in their mouths, they treat you both like a doormat and free babysitter and they are very disrespectful little girls. they want to grow up, they are mothers, this is behavior i would expect from teenagers, not adult girls". i had my mom visiting one day and my partners sisters visited and they went up to my mum and said "watch me kid for me!" while they drove off to run a errand, my mom looked at me and said "not my child, my children are grown and your not a fucking nanny"

[Asker]

there was another night one of his sisters dumped their kid at my house so they could go and chase this guy around at the nightclub and my partner called her awful names (although i was thinking it) i didn't say it, the only thing i said to my partner was "you did a bad thing, you should of said off of this while she was sitting here. not after she pushed her son to the ground and ran out the door like a 17 year old little girl, she keeps this up she will loose her son"

i have refused since then to babysit their kids, but my partner is cool with it, i told my mom what he said to me at the party and she said "she wasn't so important to him, when he was calling her a whore that time"

[spartan55]

Sounds like you need a new boyfriend for a number of reasons.

[9in_Serpent]

You need another relationship as this one is currently unhealthy for you.

[WhitneySnow]

This guy sounds horrible

[Radiate143]

Oh wow. Why are you around these people?