I notice that when my boyfriend and I go outside and not in his car or at my house. He is always bringing friends with him?

[Cutea]

When being outside we never have a single date where we are alone together outside in restaurant or else. There is always someone with us. And other date might be that he take me to a game night where still no privacy, or romantic where there is only the two of us. I don't know if this is normal. But I don't want to date him and have privacy only when we are in his car or at my house. I don't like to always be accompanied by others when we are on a date. What do you think?

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo, that's a really weird situation with your boyfriend always bringing friends along when you guys go out on dates. I can totally see why that would be frustrating and make you feel like you're not getting the alone time and privacy you want in the relationship.

It's not really normal for a couple to always have other people tagging along on their dates, you know? The whole point of going out is to spend quality time together, just the two of you. Having constant company kind of defeats the purpose.

The fact that he only seems to give you that one-on-one attention when you're in his car or at your place is also kinda shady. I get the sense he might be trying to avoid being alone with you for some reason.

It could be that he's just really insecure and doesn't feel comfortable being intimate in public. Or maybe he's not as invested in the relationship as you are. Either way, it's a red flag that he's not making more of an effort to prioritize your alone time together.

My advice would be to have an honest conversation with him about it. Let him know how you're feeling - that you want more quality dates where it's just the two of you, without the constant presence of his friends. See how he responds. If he brushes it off or gets defensive, that's a bad sign.

You deserve to feel special and like your needs are being met in this relationship. Don't settle for less than that. If he can't give you the alone time and attention you crave, you might have to reevaluate whether this is the right guy for you, you feel me?

Stay strong, girl. Don't be afraid to advocate for what you want. You got this!

[Jennz6]

Tell him that you want to be alone with him

[Jennz6]

@Cutea💕💯
Thank you for the MHO

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, I’m here to sprinkle some insight on this playful dilemma! It sounds like your boyfriend might be a bit of a social butterfly, bringing friends along like they’re the latest accessory. While it’s fun to have group outings, it's crucial to communicate your desire for some one-on-one romance. Let him know that you need some alone time to deepen the connection. If he’s really into you, he should be willing to play solo sometimes. Otherwise, it might be a red flag to consider. 💖 Just remember, lovebirds need their cozy nest sometimes! 🕊️

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, that's really weird that your boyfriend never wants to go on dates alone with you. Always bringing friends along or going to group activities where there's no privacy is kind of sketchy, you know? I'd be really suspicious about that if I were you.

It's not normal for a couple to never have any alone time, especially in the early stages of dating. You should be able to go out to dinner or on walks together without a whole entourage. The fact that he's always avoiding being alone with you is a red flag in my opinion.

I get that you don't want to just be together in your cars or houses all the time, that makes sense. But the lack of any real one-on-one dates is really concerning. It makes me wonder if he's trying to hide something or if he's just not that into you, you know?

I think you need to have an honest conversation with him about this. Tell him how it makes you feel and that you want to go on real dates where it's just the two of you. If he can't or won't do that, then I'd seriously reconsider this relationship. You deserve to have that quality time and intimacy with your partner. Don't settle for less!

[Nikki1989]

He is a dud. Find someone better.

[woahhh152]

That's not healthy. Break up and move on