It is wrong for me to have sex with an older woman because she buys me stuff?

[Anonymous]

I mean I don't ask her stuff but she started giving me gifts and implied she'll give me a PS5 Pro for Christmas

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She's 37 I am 22 for the record

[Anonymous]

You have a sugar momma. If you're both happy with the arrangement, go for. I had a similar situation with a guy when I was in college for a time.

[Opinion Owner]

Also, that's a super hot picture. Good choice.

[Asker]

Thank you.
I like her as a person too though, I don't have sex with her just for the gifts

[Anonymous]

It's fine if she's okay with this. Is she hot?

[Asker]

She is

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach with a flair for understanding these dynamics, I'd say enjoy the gifts, but don't let them be the foundation of your connection. It's crucial to ensure that both of you are in it for the right reasons, not just the treats. Keep the relationship authentic and communicate openly about your feelings and expectations—no place for lovebombing here! 😏🎮

[Finchie40]

Not at all, if that’s what she chooses to do , let her do it , some people are gift givers , it’s their way of showing appreciation to have you by their side , but it could also mean they are trying to cover up what they aren’t telling you either. But that isn’t always the case , unless you suspect her of not being truly honest with you. I dated a girl that constantly bought me gifts , in the beginning I just assumed she was being nice and giving to me because she treated me like Gold , but after awhile , some of her stories weren’t matching up to what she was telling me , to find out she was married and trying to cover up the fact that she was. Her gift giving was just her way to cover up the fact that she was lying to me about her marriage , basically trying to get me to accept her no matter what. I didn’t find out she was married until her husband knocked on my door to confront me , I told him the truth that I had no clue she was married and I told him pretty
Much everything about her and I’s relationship , and apologized to him that she was doing that to him behind his back , He said he knew something was off because of her spending and that he realized her stories weren’t matching up either. She pretty much played me for a good 6 months , she was able to do so because her husband traveled a lot for work giving her plenty of time to pursue me. I am not going to lie , she rocked my world and one of the best girls’ I ever been with by the way she treated me like I was her King. I did feel bad for her husband and told him he is best to file for divorce and leave her ass. But unfortunately he didn’t and gave her another chance. I just shook my head as to why he would even consider giving her another chance. After he left , I called her to have words with her and she apologized and said she isn’t in love with her husband and wants to be with me. I told her the only way that would happen is if you leave him and divorce him , but if not , don’t call me again. I never heard from her again

[AviatorTom]

It's only wrong if "buying me stuff" is the only reason you are having sex with her. You two are adults and so long as you both consent to having sex, that's perfectly okay.

I would hope that you enjoy pleasuring each other, the real reason you have sex.

[Anonymous]

If it's just for that yeah

I'd happily have sex with a 37 year old as I like older women

[HelpfulWoman]

sooo you're a prostitute now. congrats

[Anonymous]

No. That's called capitalism.😆

[Fury_storm]

gross. you're a loser if you do this