My girlfriend thinks I'm using her for her body

[Anonymous]

. How do I let her know that I'm not using her for her body?

[chocolate-lover]

well,

yeah I know it hurts when you feel this is the way she thinks of you, specially when it is really so far for the truth, and you truly love and caress her.

my opinion would be:

don't ask her for sex, until she takes the initiative if she wanted you. And really, I' m sure that would make her think twice about if you only want her just for her body.

and you'd better start off treating her more emotionally than physically and touchy, like pay more attention to what she is saying, care for her, make sure every day she is at home safely, talk to her before she would be going to sleep.

i know it would take time to change her mind, with only your treatment, so I think you have to talk to her about it, and how you really feel for her.

and don't forget to tell her that if you want a body to have sex with you can have it with a whore if you wanted. And if she refuted saying she always feel you want her for her body, just tell her you want her body because you love her and want to feel always intimate to her, physically as well as emotionally.

"still you want to change your attitude, and your way of treating her until she get that idea out of her mind TOTALLY, other wise she might leave you if she kept feeling you only want her for sex. she would leave you for that another guy who would make her feel he wants her for her charming personality, and for what she is, not how her body looks like.

I really wish this would help you :)

GOOD LUCK =)

[Mrhugo_96]

I have the same situation, probably my girlfriend thinks that 'cause I just see her one per week due my job I live in another city and she lives in downtown, but she waa acting different and also she told me that she did not feel the same love for me as before 'cause I was using her just for sex, but It wasn't like that way, I mean I liked to have sex with her every day 'cause was my girlfriend I love her you know, but it waa kind of sad feel that way... You girl telling you that you are using her just for sex... I feel like very sad and disappointed...

[beachtexasgirl89]

take her out on a really nice date, and pay attention to her. ask her about her family, her emotions, etc. but don't make it look fake. let her choose where you guys want to go, and later, don't make a move to have sex with her. Kiss her, maybe even make out a little, but then say "want to cuddle?" and if she says she'd rather have sex, then have sex.

[dbaby]

well, proove it to her.

it's the best way, possible.