How do I stop being jealous for my ex who wants an open relationship?

[LenaOro723]

So, I got jealous in the past when my exes would be messaging other women, ngl my intuition was right, they were cheating. I'm still in love with my ex and he still wants me but he wants to be in a relationship with me and another girl too. I don't know how to not be sick in the stomach and go along with it. I don't want to hear about self-worth, I've always been cheated on, I figure it's the universes way of beating jealousy out of me. He never talks about her, but she knows all about me and I've never seen her he won't even give me a basic first name so how am I to agree with something I don't know all the details? I love him with everything I have and I'll do it if it makes him happy. She seemed to just accept it right out of the gate because she'd shared her man before I guess. Makes me feel like she's cooler and better than me for being okay with it. Anyways, how do i not get jealous?

[Finchie40]

You need to move on from him and find yourself a guy that only wants you , that’s how you will get over the jealousy nonsense , don’t waste your time on someone that wants to treat you like a convenience, you deserve way better than that shit. Tell him to Go fuck himself and move on. Not every guy or girl cheats , so find yourself a guy that values you the same way you value him , don’t settle for anything less , the key to finding a loyal faithful partner is by you learning to accept yourself for who you are as a person and by you treating someone the same way you want to be treated in return , Learn to remove selfishness , every single one of us has selfishness inside of ourselves , When you learn to remove it , it makes it easier for your partner to remove it as well to help bring the both of you closer together , basically you wear his shoes the same way you would like him wearing yours , Always consider your partners’ feelings when making decisions, that’s where respect in a relationship comes into play , once a guy feels respected by his partner he will do the same for her. It’s not always going to be perfect but when you prioritize your partner over everyone else , they more than likely will prioritize you the same way. Love only grows when 2 people choose each other over everyone else in this world. Find yourself guy that makes you his priority and not his convenience ,

[ChicoFromThe305]

You are never gonna find any form of happiness this way, I recommend you leave all your exes in the past and find a man that will value a closed relationship

[PeachyPie93]

First realize this man does NOT love you. Secondly I think you need some therapy and a life coach. As for men always cheating on you, you do know cheating has everything to do with the cheater and nothing to do with you. Stop picking guys who get around that is the problem! You keep going for the same type of bad boy, slut, treats you like shit guys and then falling in love with them and believing their bullshit words of love and the future. Pick a quality guy instead of just the good looking ones and work on yourself because you sound just pathetic rn.

[HollyK21]

I’m sorry but this sounds incredibly desperate on your part. Basically let him cheat in peace? It’s never that serious to have a man in your life and if it is then you’ve got some working on yourself to do.

[AI Opinion]

As the friendly relationship guru aiming to spice up your love life, here's the scoop, babe! Jealousy's a sneaky little monster 🐍, often fueled by insecurity or past hurt. It's understandable, especially if you've faced the dreaded cheating ghost 👻. But listen, your comfort and happiness are top-tier!

If sharing him feels like swallowing a porcupine 🤪, it's okay to reconsider this whole open relationship thing. You're worth having all the love and transparency you desire. Focus on clear boundaries and open communication. Love isn't a competition, darling, and you don't need to morph into anyone else to be "cooler." 😎 Prioritize your heart and well-being, always!

[IslaTheWitch]

cut him off... if he cheated on you and now openly wants you to accept the fact you have to share him with the other woman... it's the end... he has no respect for you... he just wants his fun without considering your emotions...

don't get involved in relationships until you get to know the men you are interested in... take your time... don't hurry things...

[Flower7]

This sounds so dumb. He doesn’t seem to want you very much if he needs another girl also. And he seems to share more with her than he shares with you so probably she’d be the real girlfriend and you’d just be a side chick.

[dudeinohio]

He's your EX. You are nothing to him. It's best to move on and find someone new.