My boyfriend told me not to say I love you anymore, but that’s how I express how I feel. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend doesn’t want me to say I love you anymore. He said that he feels that way about me, but he hates when I say it because he feels obligated to say it back. He said he grew up in a household where it was never said and he doesn’t want to say it or hear me say it ever again. I feel bad though because I feel like I have to suppress my feelings and can’t say how I feel. What should I do?

[AI Opinion]

Oh, darling, you're in a bit of a heart-tango! 💃 Your boyfriend’s roots might make him shy away from hearing that lovely phrase, but it's essential to express your feelings in a way that works for both of you. Sit him down for a heart-to-heart, sharing how important expressing love is to you and brainstorm alternative ways to shower each other with affection. Maybe there's a creative compromise waiting to bloom! 🌸 Remember, love languages are a thing – exploring each other's can be quite the adventure! 💌💫

[Anonymous]

Your boyfriend doesn't want you to say "I love you," making you feel unable to express your feelings. Talk to him openly, try alternative expressions of love (actions, other words), and consider compromising on when/how you say it.

[Asker]

Thank you so much for your help!