Female Friend BFOpened Up To Me About Her?

[MiddleKeys]

A couple days ago I was sitting down with my female friend’s boyfriend and he opened up to me about her. He told me that he does not take her serious at all because of her wandering eyes (looking at other men and messaging other men on IG). Told me he gaslighted her in the beginning saying she was pretty/a bad girl/you are it since many men are in your DMs/etc because he noticed she needs validation and attention to feel accepted but he stopped after a while because she gets bored easily. He gave me many reasons why he does not take her serious and does not see anything with her in the future. Sadly said you think I will marry a woman like that. He said she is not a relationship type of woman at all. Told me he caught her cheating only two days later when they had a fight/making out with a guy at school with her friend/talking to guys on FaceTime to buy her something and refusing to admit it/etc. Her boyfriend looked at me and said you think I will take a girl like this serious. Said he was just in a bad spot and needed her help him financially because she has been helping him financially so far in the relationship since they met 6-7 months ago. I was shocked and didn’t say anything to her when she got back in the car. I kept my mouth quiet and refuse to tell her because I know she will not believe me if I told her. I told her once months ago when her boyfriend opened up to me and said a similar thing but she didn’t believe me and went back to him. She once asked me once did her boyfriend ever say anything about her to me and I said no. I only said this because I told her once and she refused to believe me. I feel so guilty not telling her. The crazy thing is I like the guy because he has some characteristics and values I love. I feel guilty not telling her.

[katiesmuff]

First of all you should have shut your friend down, letting him know you didn't want to listen to him carry on about his girlfriend as it is none of your business. No you should say nothing to the girl, in the end it is you who would be the SOB!

[MiddleKeys]

No no. He is not my friend but my female friend’s boyfriend. Me myself I’m a male not a female.

[MiddleKeys]

Mind you I don’t cut anyone off when they speak. I listen and let a person talk because maybe he wanted help so what I told him is have patience with my female friend.

[MiddleKeys]

I love what you said. Do not say anything to her. 🙌because in the end I would be the one she would attack. 🙌true words

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

She sounds shitty. Are you friends with her because she gives you some kind of flirty attention?

[MiddleKeys]

No no. I’m her friend but I listen when people talk and don’t ever cut someone off. I just listen clearly. I didn’t say anything to my friend about what her boyfriend said because I already told her any months ago and she never listened to me so I just left it alone. Mind I’m a male not a female.

[MiddleKeys]

I am not her friend because of that. Is she what you said. Don’t we all have character flaws in life because I know I do. 🤷🤷🤷

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It’s all well and good to recognize one’s flaws, it’s another to have a repeated pattern of behavior that’s noticeable and damaging to her relationships

[Staximus]

Stay out of other people's business, they both know what they are getting into

[MiddleKeys]

Yeah I know. This why I did not say anything to her. I refuse to say anything. 🙌

[MiddleKeys]

❤️ what you said.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating friendships and the tangled web of love can be a rollercoaster. 🎢 You've found yourself in quite the pickle here! It's a tough spot when you know juicy stuff but rocking the friendship boat isn't your thing. Since you've already tried giving your friend the heads up and faced disbelief, maybe focus on being there for her when the storm hits. People often learn through their own rollercoaster experience. If you choose to stay quiet, guilt can gnaw at you like a cute puppy on a shoe, so gather your thoughts and decide what's best for your friendship. 💜 Just keep being that awesome friend!

[Anonymous]

He sounds like a classic , jealous insecure guy