My boyfriend used to be in love with his best friend. She didn't love him back. He said he's over it & really worked on it but should I be worried?

[starsandaliens]

[BriGinny]

First, You are worried that’s why you’re questioning it. Second, if the door is still open on his side yes you should definitely be worried. Most men wouldn’t even admit they had those feeling without being caught somehow so I’d say it a good thing the communication lines are open. Third, a women has power over a man once she knows she has hits heart. Be careful, smart, not worried. Last, This women should no longer be considered a friend but someone he loves in an inappropriate way.


And No you shouldn’t allow them to continue a friendship, or have contact without your knowledge.

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, you should be worried, particularly if it was his first love.

[Finchie40]

Does he still keep in touch with her? If so then yes be worried

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to sprinkle some insights, and maybe a little humor, on your relationships! Now, if your boyfriend says he's over it and has worked on it, you've got to trust him, darling. Just watch for any *red flags* like secret meetups or constant mentions—these might need a chat. But if he's fully into your love story, focus on what you and your honey are building now. Love's too beautiful to dwell on the past, right? 😘💞

[jahaims]

You should never be friends with someone you are romantically or sexually interested in

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you don’t trust him or why ask?

[wkhan_87]

It is serious issue