Would you still call it love if it taught you nothing, but broke you gently?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Yes. It's not about how much you love someone else it's about how much you love your self

You can only love someone as deep as you love your self when you feel the pain and the hurt from other people you say you lo e that hurt and pain you bearing your self up because you no it's wrong your agree of course. But when all said and done. Your more piss off at your self because you could have stopped it

But you want you need to believe in them as much as you do yourself. You know you wouldn't allow it to go that far so your love that you have fir your self believes in them because you would want the same Opportunity to make things work straighten things out o look at you at let me tell you you are 1 bad ass girl the love that you have with in is powerful your not a quieter I think you would almost rather die than disappoint some you say you love. Be ause that's who you are. You would never give up on someone. Something in sudevof you say your a better person than this you need to become the best.

Ok so now I hope you can read through all of this and understand what I said becayse I'm talking about 4 different things at one time.

If what you have been through didn't teach you anything well I would hate to be the next guy that you fall in lovebwith because your going to have to do it again look fuck all Society's rules fuck all the lives that we've been told. Look at things different about love and pain right and wrong.

Let me try like this there was a person on here that straight up had a raice bait question. And I told this person just think you were brought to this planet for a vacation you get to experience every thing human while your here when you due and you go back to where you came from you open your eyes and every one you see looks just like you. You miss Ed out on an experience of a life time the knowledge you could have taken back with you was wasted because of hate.

So now this is what I believe in we came here to find ourselves to love ourselves so we can love others become one with self. One with others one with this universe

Omg the love that you have towards yourself is so deep so beautiful. That your willing to go through all this pain to teach them.

One with others that means teach them to become the best. Maybe that's why you won't give up maybe down deep you know this person from where ever we cane from and your begging dont do this..

A nd one with this universe the god or God's of our universe means to become like them to be the best you can be open mine understanding. We all have choice to become who we want while we are here

We have good and bad on this planet. As far as I'm concerned if you look at every thing everyone lie cheats takes from each other to get what they want. They don't care

When I say you have to make it all about you to love your self first. Means just that

That is power. Not like the power of people that lie cheat and take from others.

Because real power is giving. Not taking.
You are a giver. He was a taker.

One of these days I will be able to say it so you understand it take a break today love yourself believe me you have learned from everything you have been through because you are teaching us

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Well you can genuinely love someone who never genuinely loved you back. There are people who can feel love and have empathy as well who don’t love in healthy ways. So it depends on your definition of love.

There are plenty of situations where love can be one sided and someone can’t see it because of the fact the relationship started off so well. He or she seemed like everything you would want in a partner until eventually they took that away from you and you’re wondering what happened to the person they were before. While sometimes people can legitimately change more times then not that person just never existed it was simply who they pretended to be. So you may have been in love with a image they presented maybe.

avery58 · Accepted Answer

In my experience, yeah, it was still love from my side. I loved him. I did learn a few things, but it mostly just hurt.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Love that is so one-sided is never true love.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

I'm here to sprinkle some magic on your relationship questions! 💫 If it broke you gently but taught you zilch, then perhaps it wasn't love but an illusion wrapped in soft fabric. Sometimes, what we call love might just be a comforting companion or a lesson in disguise. Real love often leaves a mark, teaching us something even if it ends. So, is it love or just a gentle nudge in a new direction? 🌹💕

Rosexøxø · Answer

It’s not about how it ends but everything that it was..

or wasn’t.

How it was from everything from dynamics to compatibility, all the way up to stuff like emotions. How they viewed each other as well. I guess how they felt and how things functioned after things ended or broke apart can be some indicator of unrequited love, or having present mutual love, but lacking in other areas. But if a person wasn’t sure waiting until the end of a relationship to find out if they loved the other person is a bit too delayed and not really helpful. A person should strive to be self aware and mindful of the people they engage with/ interact with in the beginning and the developing of relationships. Not always at the end of them. It’s just not ideal.

princeofromance · Answer

Yes, because love can last for a moment or a lifetime depending on the two individuals involved.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

Yes I would, because I view love  as a sentiment without tying it  to any mission to accomplish. So, no learning to expect, no quintessential purpose, just feelings. As they are. Love is. It was, it will be. It's everywhere and (almost?) for everyone to feel. I'm just letting it be. Me no judgey judgey

Shiprex · Answer

Love is all too often tied into romantic notions of perfection from the off, not working toward shared goals and having values that match and intertwine.
These days way too many people think of themselves above a relationship which means relationships die because the individual becomes paramount in their own mind. One has to learn to make sacrifices, adapt and grow WITH the other person when love is involved.

thegreenyogi · Answer

No I wouldn't because I recognise the signs of a toxic person and consequently a toxic relationship. In my mind toxicity or something or someone who doesn't make you feel good does not equal love.

Subtle_Luminescence · Answer

Just because one can't grasp lessons from a sad ending relationship doesn't mean love wasn't there. One may be loving but not wise and/or observant enough.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

That heart break is still a lesson if you think about it.

anon1903 · Answer

Not everything is supposed to be a learning experience in life. Some things are just pretty and fleeting

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Love isn't a teacher, nor should it be breaking you. Love is the admiration and appreciation of that which brings you joy.

exitseven · Answer

Good question. I would say that if it was love in the beginning , it will always be love.

McSteamy · Answer

Yes it's love. Remember love is not a decision. It happens without our notice. Other's actions doesn't define whether it's love or not.

SotiCoto · Answer

I've learnt things every time I was broken. Not necessarily good things, mind you.

BDRick · Answer

I’ve been broken before, but I would still call love because at the moment, it was

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, it's still love, all of my loves were unrequited, but it's still love, just one-sided :(

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Well they say it's better to have loved and loss then to never have loved at all.

eagle1951 · Answer

too me no if nothing was learned it was a waste of time

Anonymous · Answer

I never got broken gently it was always in the worst most brutal ways possible

RageBabe · Answer

Love that is one-sided, yes.

NathanDavis · Answer

that ain't love either...

Yannae · Answer

Yes, love can hurt after all

WonderingManII · Answer

I would call it evil.

Iron_Man · Answer

what is love 😔

wkhan_87 · Answer

It is still love , even it is one sided

Anonymous · Answer

If it breaks you, that's not love.🤦‍♂️

qwerty2469 · Answer

No. Thats called stupid

dustybiker2 · Answer

Love is not choice.

Would you still call it love if it taught you nothing, but broke you gently?

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