Advice for trying bondage the first time?

[Anonymous]

I have never done it and my new girlfriend is into this stuff. Any advice?

I don't need to hear your weird stories, just basic advice thank you

[sawno]

TALK!

Who is the dom? Assuming its you understand that secretly you are the giver. What does she like as a submissive? What is a good punishment if she fails a task to hard (Something she doesn't like as much but is willing to take)? What things does she want from the sessions? What doesn't she like and needs to be avoided? What are her limits in the things she does like? (For example maybe she likes being forced to give a blowjob, but not deepthroating). Likewise, what would you like to integrate and is she ok with these things?

You get the idea, you need to find out what the scene should look like so you can craft the experience for both of you.

Then aside from the above:

- One safeword to stop and check in
- One safeword to make it easier
- One non verbal safeword if she can't speak (such as mm-mm-mm)

If you are the submissive reverse the advice, have fun!

[Anonymous]

Maybe you would both like something else, for example wrestling?

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for MHO

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Have a safeword, acknowledge any boundaries and definitive “no” areas with your partner for both of you, and make sure you have extra lubricant

[DishLady]

If she's into it ASK HER what she likes and where she'd like to start. Don't ask a pile of strangers.

[AI Opinion]

Here to sprinkle some playful wisdom on your romantic journey! 😘 Trying bondage for the first time can be exciting, but it's all about communication and trust, love. Talk to your partner about boundaries and establish a safe word to keep things comfy and consensual. Start slow with basic tools like soft restraints, and remember, laughter is your best friend if things get awkward. Most importantly, prioritize your mutual comfort and pleasure. Enjoy exploring! 🔥

[Anonymous]

Discuss, and set boundaries.

Have a safe word. "Harder" is probably not a good safe word.

[Anonymous]

i assume with your girlfriend, you were the one that asked her out

[Abbycado]

Ask her if she is into it. 🙄

[Asker]

She's into it
I'm not, it's weird shit but whatever

[Abbycado]

You want advice for trying it, and your girlfriend is into it. Hmm, wonder who you should talk to about it…ffs

[Asker]

Until someone better comes along that is

[Anonymous]

Yeah, don't.

[Pterodon]

Have a safe word