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Why not just ask him what the story is? "How long have you two been dating?", "what's she like? Really? She sounds sweet." Disclaimer: I'm not suggesting that you try to break them up. Quite the opposite, actually. I can see that creating all sorts of drama that no one wants to deal with.
If you want to ask him what their relationship is like, by all means do so, but ask in a more intrigued sense than planning-for-the-strike.
I think that trying to break a couple up is incredibly selfish and inconsiderate.
But flirting alone, in perfectly fine in my opinion, it's just basic social interaction.
who made you the judge of everyone?
...that was his opinion..thus
"i think", "in my opinion"..yeah. he never claimed to be the judge of everyone lmao.
fair - but calling some one incredibly selfish is judgmental. when they are asking for advice.
Actually, she never said she was trying to break them up. Ergo I was not calling her selfish and inconsiderate. Which means I was not being judgemental.
It's a bitch move if you're doing hoping or thinking you'll take him away from his girl. It's even worse if he's flirting back. Apodyopsis said it best.
Move on until he's single or find someone else. Don't be homewrecker. They're the worst. I would think you're better than someone that would do that.
I think you're taking it too personally. Everyone is just saying they're awful for suggesting something like that. Not awful as whole.
Well like everyone has mentioned it and it's pissing me off.
Haha Because it's not something anyone should suggest. Oh and I saw you say to Cyrus it's the guys fault too. If you believe that then why would you even consider him? That's shady.
Because he doesn't flirt with every girl in our bio lab group, just me. I think he'd be a really cool friend at the very least so I think I'm gonna ask him if he wants to study for our exam that's next Monday together.
Go for it. I don't think you shouldn't be his friend.
Just cause he doesn't flirt with other girls in the bio lab doesn't mean he doesn't flirt with other girls besides you. Guys generally pick one girl in a social setting and flirt with only that girl cause flirting with all of them there will assure they get none. But then in a different setting when there are different girls, picks another. Well, every guy I know (unless they're in a relationship, then they don't flirt at all except this one guy, he's a creeper).
What I'm saying is don't assume you're special to him and the only one he flirts with. He might just find you hot and since you're a lab partner an easy person to flirt with in his opinion since you're already talking and he might flirt with other girls in other areas. Then again, there's a chance he does like you and only you. But it's still all shady to flirt with others when one has a girlfriend/boyfriend imo.
Damn that's a smart idea. I would have never thought of that.
No, he's not a huge flirt. He's just a really chill dude, because we talk about other stuff too. It's not just him saying 'I like your outfit'. We talk about school things, our pets, our taste in music/food/shopping, pot, whatever comes out.
oh - I got it. you have NEVER have anyone really flirt or are interested in you. no wonder...
One of those doesn't seem to belong. haha
Well, he still might flirt with other girls you don't see. Just be careful, don't care to see you get hurt cause a guy you thought was great turned out to be an act. Though, in all honesty, I don't know why I give you advice cause you seem to do the right thing anyways imo lol. That's one thing I did always like about you, Tia. You might ask for advice and be conflicted, but you usually choose the mature path anyways :P
Coffinwolf is a troll. He's just mad more people aren't selfish immoral twats like him.
I'm not conflicted anymore. I'm going to keep being myself around him and see what happens. And I won't get hurt, we're flirting innocently and that's it.
I figured that.
Why would you even think about tearing a couple apart?
It's not like he's completely innocent. I love how people on this site are quick to say I'm such a horrible person. -__-
you're both equally as guilty (And I never said you're a horrible person that's your conscience speaking) but think about it, if he's so quick to flirt with another girl while he's in a relationship what makes you think he'd treat you any better?
LMAO. My conscience says no such thing. It's from all of the judgment people are passing on me. I never said I wanted to break them up. And you only really connect with a few people so I really doubt he's a complete cheater. Flirting is innocent.
he didn't even mention that he had a girlfriend until he absolutely had to, if given the chance I bet he'd cheat
dont let these jerks bring you down. Judgmental people will get theirs in the end.
lol I'm not being judgmental, it's the truth sorry if it hurts
What you say isn't necessarily the truth, it's just your opinion. And I respect that.
no it's the truth.. and it's very selfish, you said you know you should just back off but you don't want to.. well sometimes we have to do things we don't want to
if he wasn't happy with the girl he would leave her (unless he's using her in which case do you want a guy like that?)
It's not the truth at all. It's what YOU think. I don't care, I never said I'm going to break them up but I'm still going to act the same and see if he does.
what evs, it's your life and your consequences I'm just trying to advise you down the path with the least problems
but just put yourself in the girlfriend's shoes before you do anything stupid
You act like the choices I make are so bad just because you wouldn't make them. That's being awfully close-minded imo.
So whatever.
what's not bad about breaking a couple up? would you like it if a girl flirted with your boyfriend a lot and your boyfriend was stringing you along?
I never I wanted to be a homewrecker. Wtf.
look at my original answer, I was assuming you were going to break them up
after commenting I know you won't (atleast hope not), it's all cool... just don't get too flirty... I'm sure you would be annoyed too if your Boyfriend constantly flirted with one girl
I'm so over this convo.
good, so am I
Don't break them up. Just flirt. If he's not into her he will break up with her especially if he's into you. But breaking them up will just lead to drama, and if he'd leave her for you who knows if he'd leave you for someone else?
Naw well first of all that sucks! I know what you mean... meet this great guy, makes you smile, you like so much about him and then...you find out he has a gf! Now, you are entitled to ask him questions but definitely just stay friends :)
Break them up. he's not happy. loving a lady's shoes is loving the lady. He's into you.
I hit a woman up on her shoe choice often. in fact, would you like to meet me at the club tonight? there is still room in the VIP for one more in my posse...
People with morals "get theirs in the end" eh? Then people like you, douchebags, get exactly what you'll deserve. A cheating ho or a nagging bitch that you don't really love because you f***ed her and got her pregnant like the idiot you likely are.
im right. you know it. you can sit on your throne of judgement and call people hos and whatever. but just look in the mirror. People know YOUR sins and the things that YOU have done and probably have no respect for you. you are a "cover up" and that why you are so judgmental. Don't call yourself MORAL and be so high on yourself. keep judging and YES - Karmas a bitch.
btw, Karma doesn't exist.
yup. spoken like a judge. enjoy your trailer park.
Lol trailer park? I live in a city, I work at a laser lab (as in helping to create fusion) while I go to school to finish up my second degree. Trailer park, pfft. For someone talking about others being so judgmental, look in the mirror, you twat.
RIGHT! OK your a Science wizard now! ok! that's too funny. Hey - Don't forget to do your paper route in the morning. the Monday paper needs to be on time. thanks champ!
how do you know he likes her? To me it seems that he is just chatting with her, I don't see any flirting until both of them are dancing close together or having close contact.
Flirting is OK just don't expect anything to really happen because of it. I say move on to another guy. Just stay friends with this one
And don't try to break them up that's just a dumb move in my book.
if its innocent flirting there's nothing worng th it I flirt with my friends but they know its not going anywhere because I do have a fiancee
Yep, it's wrong. Would you like it if some girl was flirting with your boyfriend?
Sure. Flirting is innocent and gives everyone involved confidence and an ego-boost.
Oh, that's cool. I'd rather work on improving myself for charisma and ego boosts than rely on other people, but each to their own.
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