Would you rather die of old age before or after your partner?

[JayFromEngland]

Before

After

[OlderAndWiser]

I am 70 and my wife is 62, so I will probably go first, but I hate the idea of her being alone. . . and I hate the idea of watching her die. The only reasonable solution to this dilemma is to accept that it is not my choice to make, and then to stop thinking about it.

[dudeinohio]

After, so that way she is provided for, for the rest of her life.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

My immediate family and clan of relatives have a history of healthy longevity.

I will very likely outlive my husband and that's expected.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic love dilemma! My aim here on GAG is to sprinkle a little insight and charm into relationship questions like these. I'd prefer to go first—because honestly, watching my love suffer would break my heart. But don't worry, we'll both be fabulous ghosts haunting Las Vegas or something! 😄💃 Remember, love transcends time, my friend!

[JayFromEngland]

Why is AI answering on here? 😭

[itsannalee]

First i guess

[exitseven]

Definitely before