How do you make relationships last forever?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Choose a partner CAPABLE of a FOREVER commitment.

Honestly THIS is where most women f*** it up. I get it, the heart wants what the heart wants. But most of yalls hearts are stupid as 💩.😆 It's the equivalent of a guy who looks for a wife in a whorehouse. Not gonna happen.

After you choose a good partner. That partner should be kind of like minded. You don't have be exactly alike. But you should have the same or similar life goals. You should chose some one whose strengths compliment your weaknesses. And somebody who understands compromise.

Aside from this you need to understand people change over time. Think about it, you aren't the same person you were 10 years. Ago likely 5 years. Ago maybe not even a yr. Ago. Why would you expect that would be different with your partner. This is why you have to stay connected if you expect to grow and change together. I've seen with many couples. They have kids, they raise them and thier life becomes all about raising thier kids. Which isn't wrong. Good parents should put thier kids first. But you should ALWAYS make time for date nights. Never lose track of why you two got together in the first place or you WILL grow apart. By the time the kids go off to college if you haven't done this you view your partner as a roommate. Because you lost touch with what you two used to be.

lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

How do you keep your dog happy?

First choose a good one you can handle. Don't go for the spunky poodle just because of their coat, you may not like the attitude. Get the faithful Dobi if that's what you like even if sheds

Keep feeding it, but not too much... you'll make it sick at fat, that's never good.

When it's sick, pay attention and care for it or get it the help it needs.

Provide lots of exercise and stimulation.

Give them what they need. If they need a belly rub then do that.

something like that...

I'm talking about men of course...

Genie23 · Accepted Answer

By never taking each other for granted and appreciating them. By showing trust, respect and also providing support whenever they need you. Be loyal to them. Talk it out rather than blame or give silent treatment. Make sure to go out on dates even when you've been together for a while, just to deepen intimacy.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Aim for the best, be ready for the worst; focus on silver linings rather than shortcomings; see the person for who they are from day one… and understand them rather than trying to change them; talk honestly and openly about things rather than “in code”; shag well and often (haha).

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Ah, the quest for eternal love! 💖 Making a relationship last forever is like growing a rare flower – it needs attention, sunlight, and a sprinkle of humor. It's all about communication, compromise, and keeping that spark alive, even when life gets chaotic. And sprinkle some love dust by sharing goofy moments – because nothing says "forever" like laughing until you snort. Remember, love isn’t a sprint; it’s a joyful marathon with your favorite teammate! 🥰

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Finchie40 · Answer

Be trusting and honest , wear your partners’ shoes the same way you want them wearing yours , remove selfishness from yourself and make them your top priority , stay loyal and faithful , make him feel loved and wanted and appreciated and respected as much as possible , most of us guys’ will fall in love with a girl that is loyal and honest and respectful to us. Because we want the same thing from her. And yes intimacy and affection is Important as well, do not use sex as a weapon , which sadly a lot of girls’ tend to do and then they wonder why their man left them or cheated on them. Intimacy and affection is important to most men , it’s how we feel closer to her and how we feel loved and appreciated by her. When a girl constantly rejects her man intimacy and affection, she is digging her own grave , I’m not saying she has to spread her legs every time for him but she should never fully reject him , compromise with him , please him in other ways if you aren’t in the mood for sex. Sadly a lot of you girls’ don’t grasp this concept and then you wonder why he dumped you or cheated on you. Always put yourself in his shoes and think how you would feel if he constantly rejected you completely, me personally would never completely reject her because I love and care about her , if I wasn’t in the mood for sex , I would please her in other ways. A Relationship takes 2 people giving and receiving , not the other way around. If you want your relationship not last forever , stop making it all about yourself , Understand you aren’t single anymore. No relationship is perfect but if you choose your partner they will more than likely choose you as well. Be a team , work together , prioritize each other and I guarantee you will experience a long lasting relationship and love

ohsheeT · Answer

You have to find the right person that wants the same thing you want

That's the good part and the sad part about relations

You want someone with a mind of there own but the sad part is sometimes you do see eye to eye. So now when this happens one of you have to step up and give a little and move on it's a give in receive world.. in stead of one person always having to be right

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I find if you are always evolving and upgrading yourself, you can keep people curious about you. I am a different person every 5 years, because I become wiser and more mature. My boyfriend did not like me when I met him 18 years ago, he thought I behaved like a little child and he told me that he thought I was immature and drama prone/

AMS700CX4u2 · Answer

Marry your best friend and work for a common good. Until it is no longer a goal. Goals can change so be flexable. Realize that stuff changes as you get older and some of it cannot be helped. We are going on 54 years. Most of our peers said we would not last a year. They have all been divorced at least twice.

jshm2 · Answer

By not fucking around with the relationship.

A lot of people get the right partner, and have a decent relationship. But then get all insecure and take fucked up advice from friends and "guru's". If it works for you, then it doesn't matter about others, they aren't sleeping with her/him, you are.

So you communicate more with the partner and less with people around. Mainly as it's you two that are in the relationship.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I think the big things are to never stop respecting each other, and never stop taking an interest in each other. Friendships, romances, even acquaintanceships are fundamentally built on being fascinated by each other.

If you do that, you've really done all you can.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Kindness and compassion; respect; intelligence; honesty and integrity; good communication skills; and shared interests and values. It is not the total delusional, immature BS the usual blue anon on here is spewing.

Purpleronnie · Answer

You can’t , you can only be true to yourself and your partner , do all that you can to support , love and respect each other and hope they will always choose you.

aaron13547 · Answer

By not tryin hold onto it... be with that person one day at a time because your life is more enjoyable with them around. you will grow together rather then grow apart.

molonski2 · Answer

Right person  Lower expectations  Accept flaws  Remain faithful. Never instigate conflict  Never go to bed angry/ fighting.

Wuai201 · Answer

You can't, someone's gonna die  Wait wait maybe in y'all die together  😆😆😆 Sorry  I'll leave 🚶‍♀️

Alex-Snow · Answer

Open and honest communication and trust. OFC great and frequent sex with a lot of shred orgasms helps. What have u noticed with your boyfriends?

YourExLover69 · Answer

By giving quality time, clear communication, mutual love and mutual respect. Enjoy every moment with her. Be faithful. But currently I'm single.

janemarie15 · Answer

Don't be a toxic partner! Be faithful and loyal. Enjoy every moment, communicate always to each other. If it has wrong each of you, talk to your partner right away. And Choose your partner everyday, do not cheat! :)

FreyaRed · Answer

Blood contract with Satan? Otherwise I don't think relationships are made for forever.

Flowersareawsome22 · Answer

I learn my lesson. Sadly people marry for looks and not personality.

RingOfFire · Answer

If you want it to last forever, take out a loan to buy her a gift. It's hard to forget a girl when you buy her a gift on time. 😧

dragoblack · Answer

Treat your partner as best friends with romantic benefits. Be honest and communicate. As soon as you assign roles and dehumanize a relationship, it becomes unstable.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Die in an auto accident together. Not exactly what I would recommend.

123queenestofall · Answer

Be honest with eachother, don’t give up, communicate to understand not to respond, and be understanding. A relationship will only work if both people want it to

Sal_Monella · Answer

Mutual respect, fidelity and honor. Everything else will fall into place.

stvigor · Answer

Taking the confidence in knowing where you want to be future wise. and all the calm moments , realizing when to be yourself.

Anonymous · Answer

Lol no prenuptial agreement lol 😂😆 nobody wants divorce then ahahahaha expensive ahahahaha

Anonymous · Answer

For the man learn how to eat shit and kiss ass and have money or a good job. Women are mercenary bitches.

Anonymous · Answer

emotionally and physically loyalty from the guy

Anonymous · Answer

as long as you are yourself the guy next to you will stay with you forever

EmmaMary · Answer

Communication... Commitment... Compromise.

exitseven · Answer

It starts with a good foundation.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

The relationship does. Not we :)

LiamJHayden · Answer

Both be committed.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Become a Mormon

Staximus · Answer

By choosing wisely. Don't choose poorly.

SunshineFlowers92 · Answer

Committment and dedication.

wkhan_87 · Answer

Love , care , respect, loyalty and trust

qwerty2469 · Answer

Never tell the truth.

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

Constant maintenance

Anonymous · Answer

Be with the right person.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

I wouldn't know

MasterKS · Answer

Good sex all around.

Fashionista7 · Answer

Communication and trust.

Anonymous · Answer

Pick your battles

x-anastasiaa-x · Answer

Respect. 🌸

dudeinohio · Answer

communication is key

Gabriel-Chicanito · Answer

Loyalty.

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